PARENTING FREEDOM

attachment parenting, homeschooling, gentle discipline
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    Friday, December 21st, 2012 10:23 am

    Hundreds of hurting people visit here every day, most of whom are searching for comfort after loss. Please reach out for emotional support as you begin the healing process. Be patient with yourself. Allow yourself to grieve. Let it out. May God be with you.

  • .: Quotes :.

    “Men occasionally stumble over the truth,
    but most of them pick themselves up
    and hurry off as if nothing happened.”
    Winston Churchill
  • Helping Daddy

    | June 26, 2008

    My new camera dumps pictures in files by date, so I don’t always notice all of them unless they were taken on the day I transfer them.

    Here are C6 and L3 helping Derek wash the car earlier in the spring.

    Young Carpenters

    | June 26, 2008

    I found another picture I forgot to post. Here are the children helping me construct the new bookcases (here and here.)  I mentioned before that they helped me stain them as well.

    Parents Should Have Choice

    | June 26, 2008

    Low Incomes, High Standards
    Can private schools make a difference for low income families?

    http://www.fraserinstitute.org/commerce.web/product_files/LowIncomesHighStandardsChildrenFirst2008.pdf

    Inexpensive Private Schools Better than Public Schools: The Fraser Institute
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/jun/08062505.html

    “‘The parents surveyed reported lower incidences of bullying, fighting, drug use, and racism in inexpensive private schools compared to public schools. They also found their children did better academically and had improved social skills.’”

    “The families with children in private schools reported that their children’s academic performance improved and behavioural problems decreased, while a large proportion of families with children at public schools reported that the child’s academic performance, social skills and behaviour had worsened.”

    “‘We were astounded to see that small independent schools make such a difference for disadvantaged children, particularly considering that these schools cost, on average, 45 per cent less than public schools.’”

    “‘The survey results strongly show that parents of limited income who make the sacrifice to send their children to independent schools, whether or not they do so through a Children First grant, are much more satisfied with the academic and social environment of their children’s school than the parents whose children attend public schools.’”

    “Similar results were found with the problems of bullying, fighting, drugs, cheating, racism, and stealing.”

    “Three times as many parents with children in public schools said these behavioural problems were serious issues in their schools, with bullying being the most reported issue, compared to parents with children attending private schools.”

    Following Mohammed

    | June 26, 2008

    Saudi marriage advice: Try waiting a few years before deflowering your infant child bride
    http://hotair.com/archives/2008/06/25/saudi-marriage-advice-try-waiting-a-few-years-before-deflowering-your-infant-child-bride/

    Obama Bloopers

    | June 24, 2008

    If Dan Quayle or George Bush made these mistakes, they would be all over the news. I hadn’t heard the breathalyzer one before. LOL

    Edited (on September 10, 2008) to add :
    Lipstick
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZd_Y_D-RaA
    As a woman, I was offended by Obama’s lipstick comment. Obama’s campaign staff must have been ready to hog-tie him.

    Quote from Rush Limbaugh:

    “Obama makes the ‘lipstick on a pig’ joke, and his crowd is out there chanting, ‘No more pit bull!’ So it is very obvious that his crowd knew. They laughed and applauded. They didn’t think it was just a standard political cliché overused by politicians of all stripes. His audience laughed, and this is his problem.” (Hat Tip)

    I found this Freudian? slip hilarious:
    (Freudian – a slip of the tongue that is motivated by and reveals some unconscious aspect of the mind)
    Obama: “My Muslim Faith”
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKGdkqfBICw

    Looking for GOOD change, NOT Obad change

    Edited (September 16, 2008) to add another great Obama gaffe:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4HkuktwjnY

    Edited (October 21, 2008) to add this political satire:
    http://www.obamawantsyou.com/politicalsatire.html

    Edited (November 3, 2008):
    http://gatewaypundit.blogspot.com/2008/11/obama-booed-gaffemaster-mistakes.html

    "They Could Care Less." Ya Think?

    | June 24, 2008

    “I used to get up in the morning and go to an office. Now I get up and go to a plane. My kids still don’t care where I am. They just know both parents work in their household, and as long as we’re back for bedtime, they could care less.” Michelle Obama

    "He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named"

    | June 24, 2008

    I have been having a hard time even mentioning this guy. I feel like I shouldn’t even be talking about “He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named”.

    10 Concerns about Barack Obama
    http://article.nationalreview.com/?q=MzQ4YTY4YjQyMzRjYjA5MGZlNDBiZTkwYmEyODg5NTc=&w=MA==

    9. Barack Obama is to the left of Hillary Clinton and NARAL on the issue of life. As a state senator in Illinois, Barack Obama voted against the Induced Infant Liability Act, a law that would have protected babies if they survived an attempted abortion and were delivered alive.

    10. Barack Obama is actually to the left of every member of the U.S. Senate. According to the National Journal, “Sen. Barack Obama…was the most liberal senator in 2007.”

    Whom will a man this far left appoint to the Supreme Court?

    Barack Obama Is Not a Christian
    http://foxforum.blogs.foxnews.com/2008/06/02/barack-obama-is-not-a-christian/

    Obama is the Most Pro-Abortion Candidate Ever
    http://www.townhall.com/columnists/TerenceJeffrey/2008/01/09/obama_is_the_most_pro-abortion_candidate_ever

    Jill Stanek, who was a nurse at Christ Hospital in Oak Lawn, Ill., testified in the U.S. Congress in 2000 and 2001 about how “induced labor abortions” were handled at her hospital.

    “One night,” she said in testimony entered into the Congressional Record, “a nursing co-worker was taking an aborted Down’s Syndrome baby who was born alive to our Soiled Utility Room because his parents did not want to hold him, and she did not have the time to hold him. I couldn’t bear the thought of this suffering child lying alone in a Soiled Utility Room, so I cradled and rocked him for the 45 minutes that he lived.”

    Stanek testified about these bills in the Illinois Senate Judiciary Committee, where Obama served. She told me this week he was “unfazed” by her story of holding the baby who survived an induced labor abortion.

    On the Illinois Senate floor, Obama was the only senator to speak against the baby-protecting bills.

    Love the Freedom Theme

    | June 23, 2008

    Freedom – narrated by Sen. Fred Thompson
    http://www.youtube.com/v/issg3oUACz4&hl=en

    The Organized Homeschool

    | June 23, 2008

    I love to organize. I love to organize books the most. I have been collecting homeschool materials for the past twelve years, and I have always wished to have nice bookcases. My dream has come true this past spring.

    We have a fairly large homeschool library with literature, curriculum, and material that covers pre-school through grade ten+. We also have a few children homeschooling at different levels. Here are some things I do to make the books more organized.

    I group most books according to subject in my bookcases. For example, I have shelves for science, history, Bible, Canadian history, writing, grammar, art, Latin, Greek, French, health, poetry, music, etc. Each of those areas is generally arranged in order of difficulty.


    1st column Science / 2nd History / 3rd Bible / poster storage


    1st bookcase
    Logic, Omnibus, Law, Physics
    Saxon Math
    ABeka Math

    2nd bookcase
    Geography, Art, Poetry, Health
    Writing, Creative Writing
    Vocabulary, Spelling, Grammar/Language
    (Behind doors – French, Greek, Latin)

    3rd bookcase
    Canadian History
    Conservative Studies
    Music
    Large Children’s Books

    I also have some bookcases full of “just reading books” which are arranged in order from beginners through grade ten+. This is where several of the shelves are layered with a second row in behind. There are also shelves for Tolkien books, all the J.K. Rowling books (which include two raggedy sets of all the HP books), and many other series that can be read in a variety of grades. 


    Literature – Pre-School through Grade Ten+

    The smaller bookcase below is for beginner reader books like Bobbsey Twins, Boxcar Children, Magic Treehouse, and Great Illustrated Classics.


    Beginner Reader Books

    At the beginning of each school year, I prepare a bookcase for each child that holds the material for every subject that is expected to be covered during that grade.


    B’s books (last year, grade four)


    N’s books (last year, grade nine)

    When I purchase a new book, I try to put a small little sticker on the binding that shows the grade(s) in which it is likely to be read. When this is begun with the oldest child, it makes things more efficient when I collect the books for the other children. It may seem time-consuming, but it prevents me from feeling overwhelmed by looking at tons of books and not having a clue what grade might be appropriate.

    Each of the children is pleased to let me know when he or she finishes reading a book. We then write his or her first initial and grade on the inside of the back cover of that book. (That task is not always done that very minute, but we set them aside so we won’t forget.) For example, this past year, my nine-year-old would write B-4 because his names starts with B, and he was in grade four. (All our children’s names begin with a different letter.)

    We write the inital and grade for a few reasons. It tells us if the child read the book (it is possible to forget) and the grade(s) in which it was read. It is helpful when collecting books for the next child. For good or bad reasons, it also creates a competitiveness for the younger children which may not be common in many homeschools. C6 began reading chapter books younger than her older brothers (math is another story), so when she looked at the back of a book and saw a B-2 or an N-3, she was pretty pleased to write C-1. (Meaning her brothers read it in grade two and three, and she read it in grade one.)


    N read this book in both grade two and three.
    (He has always tended to read books over and over.)
    B read it in grade two.
    C read it in grade one.


    N read this in both grades four and nine.
    B read it in grade four.

    We usually stack the “just finished” books next to the computer. Each time a book is read, (in addition to the initial/grade in the back), I add the title to a list showing books that particular child read in that particular grade. (I usually have a little stack before I do this.) It serves as a helpful portfolio and a guide for the next children.

    Since I am talking organization, here are the insides of four storage cabinets in the same room.


    Little Kids Books (has doors with childproof lock)
    Toys for Girls
    My Little Ponies, Polly Pockets, dolls, stuffed animals
    (More toys in behind)

    I got rid of a lot of our little kid books and bought a big wicker rectangular basket that we keep in the living room for library books. We borrow at least 50 picture/story books every few weeks or so and store them in the basket. Since our home books are generally kept upstairs, they are less likely to get mixed up with the library books that are in the living room.


    Toys for Boys (has doors with childproof lock)
    Small Army Guys, Big Army Guys, Assorted
    (More toys in behind)
    (There is an identical cabinet for Lego and K’Nex in B9′s room.)


    Little Kids Toy Cabinet (has doors with childproof lock)
    Blocks, big Lego, play animals
    Medium Lego, Little Tikes Toys, Fisher-Price Toys
    (more toys in behind)


    Craft Cupboard (has doors with childproof lock)
    Balls and marbles, rock collection, tiny toys (pieces), shells, paints
    Puzzles, base ten blocks, magic kit
    Art bin, math bin, marble game, clay, play-dough, crafts
    (more in behind)

    Anyway, there are tons of things I am lousy at, but I won’t list them today. Organizing is not one of them. *grin*

    Yesterday

    | June 23, 2008

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