PARENTING FREEDOM

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    the parent's wish is the child's command."
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  • The AWESOME Sarah Palin

    carol | August 31, 2008

    Due to a mini-vacation, I haven’t been at a computer since Friday morning. At that time, rumours were floating around about a certain plane flying from Alaska. Eventually I learned that it was confirmed that Sarah Palin had been selected as John McCain’s running mate. She was my number one pick all spring and summer, but I wasn’t sure if John McCain would choose her. I hoped and I hoped (just ask Derek), and you can only imagine my excitement when it was confirmed. My only disappointments were that I couldn’t get access to a computer or even watch FOX news. As a last (pathetic) resort, I turned to CNN and laughed at them calling it a “shocker” and scrambling to find “something” negative about Palin.

    It is exciting to see such a contrast in the two parties. The Republican party represents a REAL choice for LIFE and conservative values. It stands as a stark contrast to the radical liberal pro-death Democratic party that is supported by both the mainstream media and Hollywood.

    I found links to these images in my inbox as soon as I got home.


    Sarah Palin with her baby in a sling


    Sarah Palin with her baby in a sling

    When I checked my blogroll, I was delighted to read that some of my favorite bloggers like Sarah Palin as much as I do.

    http://ebeth.typepad.com/reallearning/
    http://www.tulipgirl.com/index.php/2008/08/all-mothers-are-working-mothers/
    http://adventuresinmercy.wordpress.com/2008/08/29/palin-rocks/
    http://mommylife.net/
    http://whitewashedfeminist.com/
    http://conservativeintelligencer.com/palin-for-vp-woot/540/

    Sarah Palin

    carol | August 29, 2008

    I can hardly stand it, I am so excited!! Will Sarah Palin be the first female vice president???  :-)   :-)  :-)

    WAITING

    carol | August 29, 2008

    Early on, my favorites were Newt, Fred, and Sarah….. Could Palin really be the VP pick??? :-D Awesome.

    JM vs BO

    carol | August 28, 2008

    McCain: “If I Am President, Advancing the Cause of Life Will Not Be Above My Pay Grade”
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/aug/08082708.html

    “He [Obama] is against parental notification laws, and against restrictions on taxpayer funding for abortions. In the Illinois Senate, a bipartisan majority passed legislation to prevent the horrific practice of partial-birth abortion. Senator Obama opposed that bill, voting against it in committee and voting “present” on the Senate floor.”

    “In 2002, Congress unanimously passed a federal law to require medical care for babies who survive abortions – living, breathing babies whom Senator Obama described as, quote, “previable.” This merciful law was called the Born Alive Infants Protection Act. Illinois had a version of the same law, and Barack Obama voted against it…”

    “I can assure you that if I am president, advancing the cause of life will not be above my pay grade.”  John McCain

    Where Do the Candidates Stand on Abortion?
    http://www.nrlc.org/Election2008/Comparison071408.pdf

    Burned Alive in Her Mother's Womb

    carol | August 28, 2008

    Abortion Survivor Calls Out Barack Obama
    http://www.eyeblast.tv/public/video.aspx?RsrcID=34732

    More Political Videos

    carol | August 28, 2008

    Video: Barack Obama’s greatest hits!
    http://hotair.com/archives/2008/08/28/video-barack-obamas-greatest-hits/

    Video: A new McCain spokesman for Obama’s unreadiness
    http://hotair.com/archives/2008/08/28/video-a-new-mccain-spokesman-for-obamas-unreadiness/

    Video: New golden age of race relations dawns as Obama mocked for elitism
    http://hotair.com/archives/2008/08/28/video-new-golden-age-of-race-relations-dawns-as-obama-mocked-for-elitism/

    Tiny
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhH2q6h7_Ow

    Front Lines at the DNC

    carol | August 26, 2008

    Operation Rescue:
    http://www.operationrescue.org/index.php

    Video Updates:
    http://www.operationrescue.org/?page_id=1020

    Found this one to be very sad:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVBeHdm3hTY&e

    And this picture (VERY GRAPHIC):
    http://operationrescue.org/photos/main.php?g2_itemId=4652

    "I want to say it loudly. I'm getting giggles."

    carol | August 26, 2008

    The Chronicles Of The Obamessiah, Volume II: In The Temple
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ted9Hzn8foY&e

    “Did somebody just get faint?” Barack Obama

    SAT Scores

    carol | August 26, 2008

    SAT Scores Remain at 10-Year Low
    http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1836111,00.html?xid=rss-topstories

    “More than ever, the SAT reflects the face of education in this country…”

    Pet Connection

    carol | August 26, 2008

    Dogs ‘may be able to read their owner’s minds’
    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/earth/main.jhtml?xml=/earth/2008/08/06/scidogs106.xml

    The Pill and Finding the Wrong Guy

    carol | August 26, 2008

    Contraceptive pill influences partner choice
    http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2008-08/uol-cpi081108.php

    “The contraceptive pill may disrupt women’s natural ability to choose a partner genetically dissimilar to themselves…”

    “Disturbing a woman’s instinctive attraction to genetically different men could result in difficulties when trying to conceive, an increased risk of miscarriage and long intervals between pregnancies. Passing on a lack of diverse genes to a child could also weaken their immune system.”

    “‘Not only could MHC-similarity in couples lead to fertility problems but it could ultimately lead to the breakdown of relationships when women stop using the contraceptive pill, as odour perception plays a significant role in maintaining attraction to partners.’”

    Good One

    carol | August 25, 2008

    Black Republicans Pac Ad
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6c_9hIQXqG4&e

    Star Wars Baby Carrier

    carol | August 23, 2008

    We went to see The Clone Wars last night. B9 has been playing Star Wars Lego all summer, so I knew he would love the movie. L3 was also right into it, and N14 didn’t mind it. The girls (C7 and I) didn’t expect to be impressed, but we had fun anyway.

    What I liked best about the movie was the baby carrier/backpack in which they carried the Baby Huttlet (AKA Rotta or Stinky). They could have chosen any fancy wheeled method of carrying the baby, but they chose the most efficient, safest, and BEST way! Love the babywearing!!

    Quick on the Draw

    carol | August 23, 2008

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDVUPqoowf8

    ABC’S GEORGE STEPHANOPOULOS: You were asked, “Is he ready?” You said, “I think he can be ready but right now, I don’t believe he is. The presidency is not something that lends itself to on-the-job training.”

    JOE BIDEN: I think that I stand by the statement.

    ANNCR: And what does he say about John McCain?

    BIDEN: I would be honored to run with or against John McCain, because I think the country would be better off.

    And we can’t forget more of Biden’s words referring to Obama.

    “I mean, you’ve got the first sort of mainstream African-American who is articulate and bright and clean and a nice-looking guy. I mean, that’s a story-book, man,” Biden said.

    What’s with the text-messaging thing in the middle of the night anyway? What about all the poor people who don’t have access to text-messaging?

    Reminded by: http://hotair.com/

    Mosaic Meme

    carol | August 22, 2008

    Here’s how it works:
    a. Type your answer to each of the questions below into Flickr Search.
    b. Using only the first page, pick an image.
    c. Copy and paste each of the URLs for the images into fd’s mosaic maker. Choose 3 columns with 4 rows.

    The Questions:
    1. What is your first name?
    2. What is your favorite food?
    3. What high school did you go to? (or, What year did you graduate high school?)
    4. What is your favorite color?
    5. Who is your celebrity crush?
    6. Favorite drink?
    7. Dream vacation?
    8. Favorite dessert?
    9. What you want to be when you grow up?
    10. What do you love most in life?
    11. One Word to describe you.
    12. Your flickr name. (kid version: favorite animal?)

    Found here: http://www.tulipgirl.com/index.php

    Consider yourself tagged. Leave a comment if you try it!

    Odds and Ends

    carol | August 21, 2008

    Pictures on my camera:


    The monster spider (bottom right)
    and nest of babies (top left) in our shrub


    The tiny toad N14 found while mowing

    Some Journal Notes:

    PS3 SingStar: We got this last weekend. It is the coolest karaoke system. It has a limited song store, and will never have hymns and children’s songs, but it is really fun (maybe not for the listeners!)

    If you CAN’T sing and love EIGHTIES music, then come visit us on weekend evenings. ;-)

    Library Craft Time

    Ready for School: The three youngest were anxious to start, so they have already done some subjects. N14 has been working on Calculus for a few weeks. (The far right sidebar has updated homeschooling schedules by grade.)

    I asked B9 what book he was reading now, and he said his Bible and Bible study book. I said, “Well, that is supposed to be for all year, a chapter a day.” He said, “But I like it the best. It is the most interesting.” There I am, arguing with my son about him reading the Bible too much. LOL

    Both B9 and C7 have read a ton of books already this summer. N14 read some good ones as well.

    Shopping Trip in M’ton: I find it very annoying that the “Back-to-School” clothes are all short-sleeved. Parents have to buy new clothes for the children in August and then again a short time later when it gets cold. (I only bought long-sleeves.) Speaking of the weather, we had an unusually rainy summer, but the forecast for the next few days is hot and sunny. Maybe we should postpone our back-to-school plans.

    Soccer: B9 and C7 enjoyed playing soccer this summer. The score of B9′s final game of the jamboree was 1-0, and it was B9 that scored the only goal! He was pretty happy.

    During the other jamboree, I had to laugh at C7′s coach who told the girls on the team to “STOP SOCIALIZING!” LOL Isn’t that why they tell “us homeschoolers” to get involved in organized sports?  :-)  It is pretty funny to see C7 picking flowers or chatting away in the middle of a game.

    Video Games: This summer, each boy was allowed an hour before 10 AM and an hour after supper. I didn’t want video games to affect our short summer. Next week, I expect we will go back to them each having one hour after schoolwork/chores are completed, and more on the weekends.

    Vacation Bible School: The three youngest children and I have been going to VBS this week. During classroom time, a helper and I have nine three and four year-olds (including L3). We do a craft, color, and have a snack. To keep them occupied, I always do several fingerplays which they love. I am also responsible for game time for the 3′s, 4′s, 5′s, and 6′s. I try to make sure the games have no losers, and that everybody gets to play most of the time. We are doing great. Lots of laughter and fun. Tomorrow is the last day.

    Health: There always seems to be a health challenge in this house. I wish I had more energy to do what my mind wants me to do. Being told I had ADD explains a lot of my tendencies.

    Chore Charts: Although things can get out-of-hand pretty quickly around here, the children are very helpful and will do chores when I ask. I would prefer for them to have more of a predictable routine though. I have new chore charts on order that I am looking forward to using. I will share pictures and links later.

    S.P.A.M Attacks: I have been getting a ton this past week on my site. Yuck. I prefer nice comments. :-)

    Website: The main purpose of shutting down my old site has not helped get my information out there like I expected. I am disappointed that my most important pages are still not being used in Google.

    Television: I am glad there have been new Jon and Kate + 8′s all summer. We have also enjoyed some of its reruns. The only other thing I have been watching is some FOX news.

    Books: I always have a few on the go.

    I just finished this and found it to be really good: Parent in Control. I love the author’s understanding of the difference between discipline and punishment. I’ll have to post some quotes later on. I am reminded of the parents and children at VBS. When I hear them talk, I am certain they would not understand a home that is free from punishing children.

    I am reading Waiting for His Coming by Lewis Neilson. (I am of the amillennialist persuasion, but I don’t care to debate.)

    I am reading a book on the mind/body health connection. I did one of the exercises, and found it quite interesting. 

    And, *gasp* I am also reading a Catherine Cookson book.

    Hmmm: Definitely odds and ends in this post. I can’t think of anything else I want to share right now. Have a great weekend.

    Evil

    carol | August 21, 2008

    “As I understand it, this puts the burden on the attending physician who has determined, since they were performing this procedure, that, in fact, this is a nonviable fetus; that if that fetus, or child – however way you want to describe it – is now outside the mother’s womb and the doctor continues to think that it’s nonviable but there’s, let’s say, movement or some indication that, in fact, they’re not just coming out limp and dead, that, in fact, they would then have to call a second physician to monitor and check off and make sure that this is not a live child that could be saved.” Barack Obama

    In 2002, Barack Obama Supported Infanticide and I’ve Got the Transcript of His Words
    http://www.redstate.com/diaries/redstate/2008/aug/21/in-2002-barack-obama-supported-infanticide-a/

    Page 32 http://www.ilga.gov/senate/transcripts/strans92/ST040402.pdf 

    What a nuisance - having to call a second doctor to make sure it is not a “LIVE CHILD”.

    Pure evil.

    Article

    carol | August 21, 2008

    Are You Turning Your Child Into a Wimp?
    http://www.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1817260,00.html

    (I haven’t read the mentioned book, so this is not a recommendation.)