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    “Men occasionally stumble over the truth,
    but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing happened.”
    Winston Churchill
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  • Punished by Isolation

    carol | October 29, 2009

    Parent backlash at school that keeps unruly pupils in isolation room to calm down
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1223585/Parent-backlash-school-locks-unruly-pupils-isolation-room-calm-down.html#ixzz0VKG5qc3D

    “Disruptive children are sent to the 8ft by 4ft room, which has no handles on the inside and only a window in the door, until they calm down.”

    "Let It Go"

    carol | October 28, 2009

    John Lennon – Watching The Wheels

    John Lennon – Watching The Wheels

    People say I’m crazy doing what I’m doing
    Well they give me all kinds of warnings to save me from ruin
    When I say that I’m okay well they look at me kind of strange
    Surely you’re not happy now you no longer play the game

    People say I’m lazy dreaming my life away
    Well they give me all kinds of advice designed to enlighten me
    When I tell them that I’m doing fine watching shadows on the wall
    Don’t you miss the big time boy you’re no longer on the ball

    I’m just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
    I really love to watch them roll
    No longer riding on the merry-go-round
    I just had to let it go

    Ah, people asking questions lost in confusion
    Well I tell them there’s no problem, only solutions
    Well they shake their heads and they look at me as if I’ve lost my mind
    I tell them there’s no hurry
    I’m just sitting here doing time

    I’m just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
    I really love to watch them roll
    No longer riding on the merry-go-round
    I just had to let it go
    I just had to let it go
    I just had to let it go

    "Neocutis, a bio-pharmaceutical company focused on dermatology and skin care, is using aborted fetal cell lines to produce several of their anti-aging skin creams."

    carol | October 28, 2009

    Aborted Fetal Material Used in Anti-Wrinkle Creams
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2009/oct/09102708.html

    “Neocutis, a bio-pharmaceutical company focused on dermatology and skin care, is using aborted fetal cell lines to produce several of their anti-aging skin creams.”

    Barack Infanticide Obama: Helping YOU Fund Abortion

    carol | October 28, 2009

    Mich. Democrat: Pelosi ‘not happy with me’
    http://thehill.com//blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/64971-mich-democrat-pelosi-not-happy-with-me

    “Rep. Bart Stupak said Speaker Pelosi is not pleased with his effort to change abortion-related provisions in the healthcare bill being crafted by the House.”

    You Lie!… Dem Rep Says President Played Word-Games During Speech; Obamacare Will Cover Abortion (Video)
    http://gatewaypundit.firstthings.com/2009/10/you-lie-dem-rep-says-president-played-word-games-during-speech-obamacare-will-cover-abortion-video/

    GRAPHIC: Victory: Abortion/Obama graphics displayed at liberal bastion Berkeley
    http://www.jillstanek.com/archives/2009/10/gap_takes_abort.html

    GRAPHIC: Obama Campus Exhibit Signs
    http://www.abortionno.org/index.php/gap_signs/obama/C7/

    Vaccination: Swine Flu / H1N1 Vaccine Questions and Collection of News Articles

    carol | October 28, 2009

    How many people have died of the regular flu since the H1N1 scare began?
    (I found out that “about 100 people in the US die from the typical flu every day.”)

    Is the H1N1 vaccine available without mercury (Thimerosal) in your area?

    What percentage of people who got the vaccine came down with the flu?

    Are they testing those who are sick for both H1N1 and the regular flu?

    Are you comfortable with the amount of testing done on the H1N1 vaccine?

    Have you read the risks associated with the H1N1 vaccine? Google “H1N1 package inserts”

    Health Canada approved this country’s H1N1 vaccine without evaluating its safety and effectiveness on a single Canadian
    http://www.canada.com/health/Health+Canada+takes+word+others+H1N1+vaccine+safe/2146715/story.html

    Swine Flu Panic in Perspective
    http://www.americanthinker.com/2009/10/swine_flu_panic_in_perspective.html

    Swine Flu Cases Overestimated?
    http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/10/21/cbsnews_investigates/main5404829.shtml

    Canadians don’t see H1N1 as a personal risk, only one-third plan to take shot
    http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/health-fitness/articles/family-health/cp/home_family-canadians_don_t_see_h1n1_as_a_personal_risk_only_one-third_plan_to_take_shot

    Doctor Admits Vaccine Is More Deadly Than Swine Flu Itself & Will NOT Give It To His Kids
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E1z7KSEnyxw

    Two Die Within Hours Following Swine Flu Jab in Sweden
    http://educate-yourself.org/vcd/swedishnursesdiefromvaccine25oct09.shtml

    [Obama's daughters] Sasha & Malia Will NOT Receive the Swine Flu Vaccine
    http://hubpages.com/hub/Sasha-Malia-Will-Not-Receive-the-Swine-Flu-Vaccine

    ALERT: Special Swine Flu Update
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/10/21/Special-Swine-Flu-Update.aspx

    Eighteen Reasons Why You Should NOT Vaccinate Your Children Against The Flu This Season
    http://www.lewrockwell.com/sardi/sardi119.html

    Dr. Mercola: Do NOT Let Your Child Get Flu Vaccine — 9 Reasons Why
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/10/06/Why-You-Should-NOT-Vaccinate-Your-Children-Against-the-Flu-This-Season.aspx 

    Swine flu jab link to killer nerve disease: Leaked letter reveals concern of neurologists over 25 deaths in America
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1206807/Swine-flu-jab-link-killer-nerve-disease-Leaked-letter-reveals-concern-neurologists-25-deaths-America.html

    Gary Null Speaking Out at the NYS Assembly Hearing | 10-13-2009
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3XlJB7J5-o
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ch5OuzB9L48
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tAgWO2yq1k8

    Pandemic H1N1 Swine Flu: What About You & Your Family?
    http://www.nvic.org/vaccines-and-diseases/h1n1-swine-flu.aspx

    Woman Disabled by Flu Shot Reaction
    http://www.myfoxdc.com/dpp/health/101309_woman_disabled_by_flu_shot_reaction_dystonia

    Do Flu Shots Work? Ask A Vaccine Manufacturer.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=az5aAwr4ugE

    The Dr. Oz Bait for Vaccines: Why Did He Do It?
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/10/13/Dr-Oz-Helps-Shill-the-Flu-Vaccine.aspx

    “He states that he’s been getting the seasonal flu vaccine every year for about ten years. But what you didn’t see in that clip was Dr. Oz stating that when it comes to the swine flu shot, NEITHER his wife NOR his four children will get the vaccine (although he will get that one too).”

    German officials reject charges of two-classes of swine-flu vaccines
    http://www.dw-world.de/dw/article/0,,4803801,00.html

    “The type of shot a person gets is to depend on their position in society, leading to complaints about a ’second class’ swine-flu vaccine.”

    “Politicians, certain government employees and members of the German military are scheduled to receive one type of the swine flu vaccine, while average citizens in Germany are to receive a different one.”

    “The difference between the two vaccines is that the one meant for members of the government is said to have fewer side-effects. It also lacks certain additives which are said to be present in the version for the general population.”

    Retired Vaccine Researcher to Jon Rappoport:
    “If I had a child now, the last thing I would allow is vaccination.”
    http://educate-yourself.org/cn/rappoportinterviewvaccineresearcherjan2002.shtml

    Jim Carrey and Jenny McCarthy Present Robert F. Kennedy Jr. – Shocking Vaccine Cover Up:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-Af0ar7gE4
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ysbUM5jk54&NR=1

    “Why aren’t they [the press] asking CDC, why don’t you study the Amish? (like UPI did) Why don’t you study these homeschooled kids? 30000 homeschooled kids studied by the UPI and no autism in that group. They studied all the Amish in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, there should be 130 autistic kids. There are four. And three of them were adopted after receiving their vaccines and the fourth one lived downwind of a… coal burning power plant. What we’ve got to stop doing is blaming the mothers, which is what they’ve done. These are not hysterical women.” Robert F. Kennedy Jr.

    YOUR CHILD’S DEATH WILL BE A COINCIDENCE AND NO ONE IS LIABLE
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQZpm4-6YfM

    http://www.nvic.org//

    http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/vaccine.htm

    http://www.vaccinationnews.com/

    http://thinktwice.com/

    Canada: H1N1 Pandemic Influenza Vaccine
    http://vran.org/about-vaccines/specific-vaccines/influenza-vaccine-flu-shot/h1n1-pandemic-influenza-vaccine/

    Immunization in N.B. is not mandatory in school. You can refuse on reasons of conscience. www.gnb.ca/0000/pol/e/706AB.pdf Only one section need be filled. #3.

    Edited to add:

    Swine Flu — One of the Most Massive Cover-ups in American History
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/11/03/What-We-Have-Learned-About-the-Great-Swine-Flu-Pandemic.aspx
    Part 1 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=–nWrqIspnQ
    Part 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnaiubVJv8E
    Part 3 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktcoJW6mj1U
    Part 4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5E2N4pliXs

    Finnish minister of health speaks out against swine flu vaccine
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTgyakGAddM

    Children Who Get Flu Vaccine Have Three Times Risk Of Hospitalization For Flu, Study Suggests
    http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/05/090519172045.htm

    Why is Canada Changing Its Flu Vaccine Policy?
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/11/10/Canadian-Provinces-Suspend-Seasonal-Flu-Shots-and-Recommend-Vitamin-D.aspx

    “Some Canadian provinces have suspended the ‘normal’ seasonal flu shots for anyone under 65 in response to a recent study there… people vaccinated against seasonal flu are actually twice as likely to catch swine flu…” “On October 21, the Canadian minister of health issued an interim order approving the sale of an ASO3 adjuvanted H1N1 vaccine called Arepanrix. Canadians need to know that each 0.5 ml dose of Arepanrix contains: 10.69 mg of squalene, 4.86 mg of Tween80. Also known as Polysorbate 80, it may be a hidden inductor of anaphylactic shock. One 2005 study concluded: “Polysorbate 80 is a ubiquitously used solubilizing agent that can cause severe nonimmunologic anaphylactoid reactions.”, 5 mcg of thimerosal…”

    http://mercola.fileburst.com/PDF/swine-flu/swine-flu-poster-colored.pdf

    (Humorous look on serious topic) Eye on the Flu Shot
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I88fDGPA7wM

    Boy nearly dies after getting H1N1 vaccine
    http://www.kttc.com/Global/story.asp?S=11472916

    Five die after seasonal flu vaccination
    http://joongangdaily.joins.com/article/view.asp?aid=2911318

    The news consistently tells us that if a person gets the flu and dies, it is NOT because of additional bacterial infections, etc., but if a person gets the flu shot and dies, it IS because of other conditions.

    DOH investigates death of 8-yr-old boy at SBUH
    http://www.northshoreoflongisland.com/Articles-i-2009-10-22-81838.112114-sub_DOH_investigates_death_of_8yrold_boy_at_SBUH.html

    Vaccination: "Merck never tested Gardasil for safety in young girls"

    carol | October 26, 2009

    Gardasil Researcher Drops A Bombshell
    http://thebulletin.us/articles/2009/10/25/top_stories/doc4ae4b76d07e16766677720.txt

    “Dr. Diane Harper, lead researcher in the development of two human papilloma virus vaccines, Gardasil and Cervarix, said the controversial drugs will do little to reduce cervical cancer rates and, even though they’re being recommended for girls as young as nine, there have been no efficacy trials in children under the age of 15…”

    “‘I came away from the talk with the perception that the risk of adverse side effects is so much greater than the risk of cervical cancer, I couldn’t help but question why we need the vaccine at all,’ said Joan Robinson, Assistant Editor at the Population Research Institute.”

    “Dr. Harper began her remarks by explaining that 70 percent of all HPV infections resolve themselves without treatment within a year. Within two years, the number climbs to 90 percent. Of the remaining 10 percent of HPV infections, only half will develop into cervical cancer, which leaves little need for the vaccine.”

    “She went on to surprise the audience by stating that the incidence of cervical cancer in the U.S. is already so low that ‘even if we get the vaccine and continue PAP screening, we will not lower the rate of cervical cancer in the US…’”

    This is not the first time Dr. Harper revealed the fact that Merck never tested Gardasil for safety in young girls. During a 2007 interview with KPC News.com, she said giving the vaccine to girls as young as 11 years-old “is a great big public health experiment.’”

    “When asked why she was speaking out, she said: ‘I want to be able to sleep with myself when I go to bed at night…’”

    “She had been trying for months to convince major television and print media about her concerns, ‘but no one will print it.’”

    “‘It is silly to mandate vaccination of 11 to 12 year old girls,’ she said at the time. ‘There also is not enough evidence gathered on side effects to know that safety is not an issue…’”

    Hat Tip: Crystal

    Vaccination: "Gary Null Speaking Out at the NYS Assembly Hearing"

    carol | October 26, 2009

    Gary Null Speaking Out at the NYS Assembly Hearing | 10-13-2009 | (part 1 of 3)

    Gary Null Speaking Out at the NYS Assembly Hearing | 10-13-2009 | (part 2 of 3)

    Gary Null Speaking Out at the NYS Assembly Hearing | 10-13-2009 | (part 3 of 3)

    Hat Tip: Cheryl

    "Child bound, gagged with duct tape at school"

    carol | October 25, 2009

    Video: Child bound, gagged with duct tape at school
    http://hotair.com/archives/2009/10/25/video-child-bound-gagged-with-duct-tape-at-school/

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    Parents Want Suspension In Duct Tape Incident
    http://cbs4denver.com/local/Jennifer.Carter.Palmer.2.1267696.html

    "Had I ever practiced CIO, I would have woken to a lifeless baby."

    carol | October 25, 2009

    Saving My Baby
    http://fiercemamas.blogspot.com/2009/10/saving-my-baby.html

    “In the hallway, the cardiologist turned to me and quietly told me that it was my parenting – the constant carrying – that had allowed her to survive against all odds.”

    “My daughter never cried alone, left in a room. Had I ever practiced CIO, I would have woken to a lifeless baby.”

    Hat Tip: Megan (Thanks!)

    For more on this topic, choose from the following:
    Essay ~ Bible Verses ~ Quotes ~ Blog Posts ~ Books

    Hallowe'en: Should Christian Parents Be Afraid?

    carol | October 25, 2009

    “Fear not, for I am with thee, and will bless thee.” Genesis 26:24

    “For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, ‘Abba, Father.’” Romans 8:15

    Concerning Halloween by James B. Jordan
    http://www.biblicalhorizons.com/open-book/no-28-concerning-halloween/

    “On All Hallows’ Eve (Hallow-Even – Hallow-E’en – Halloween), the custom arose of mocking the demonic realm by dressing children in costumes. Because the power of Satan has been broken once and for all, our children can mock him by dressing up like ghosts, goblins, and witches. The fact that we can dress our children this way shows our supreme confidence in the utter defeat of Satan by Jesus Christ – we have NO FEAR!…”

    “This is a good place to note that many articles in books, magazines, and encyclopedias are written by secular humanists or even the pop-pagans of the so-called ‘New Age’ movement… These people actively suppress the Christian associations of historic customs, and try to magnify the pagan associations. They do this to try and make paganism acceptable and to downplay Christianity. Thus, Halloween, Christmas, Easter, etc., are said to have pagan origins. Not true…”

    “These fundamentalists do not accept the humanist and pagan rewriting of Western history, American history, and science, but sometimes they do accept the humanist and pagan rewriting of the origins of Halloween and Christmas, the Christmas tree, etc. We can hope that in time these brethren will reexamine these matters as well. We ought not to let the pagans do our thinking for us…”

    “‘He who sits in the heavens laughs; Yahweh ridicules them’ says Psalm 2. Let us join in His holy laughter, and mock the enemies of Christ on October 31.”

    What About Halloween?
    http://thesmocklady.com/blog/what-about-halloween/

    Christian Myths and Urban Legends
    http://www.new-life.net/christian-myths-and-urban-legends/

    UL: “Halloween was a Satanic holiday.”

    Truth: “Halloween does have some roots in a pagan (not Satanic) harvest festival. But the name of the holiday, pumpkins, and Trick-or-Treat come from good origins!”

    Halloween Myths, Monsters, and Devils
    http://www.featherlessbiped.com/halloween/hallows.htm

    The History of Halloween — It’s Probably Not What You Think
    http://web.archive.org/web/20080514054111/http://www.new-life.net/halowen1.htm

    The History of Halloween Part 2
    http://web.archive.org/web/20071222181511/www.new-life.net/halowen2.htm

    “Regardless of the position you take regarding your family’s response to Halloween, if you are concerned about the evil associations with Halloween, you can rejoice that you can ‘resist the devil and he will flee from you’ (James 4:7) and that through the cross Christ has ‘disarmed principalities and powers,’ and ‘made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them’ (Colossians 2:15).”

    “I would certainly suggest using the holiday to teach our children about the triumph in Christ of God over evil. This should not be a night that we hide from in fear, but a night (like every night) when a Christian can stand confident in victory, because the One who lives in us is greater, than the one who lives in the world (1 John 4:4). ‘You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them!’ (1 John 4:4).”

    “Holding oneself apart from the world is perhaps a good thing, but sometimes this is just an excuse for being afraid. We are reminded to be ‘in the world’ and ‘sent to the world’, as well as being ‘not of the world’ (John 17:15-18).”

    What about Halloween? By Bob and Gretchen Passantino
    http://web.archive.org/web/20050404085816/www.answers.org/Issues/Halloween.html

    "The fool on the hill sees the sun going down, the world spinning 'round"

    carol | October 23, 2009

    Fool on the Hill ~ The Beatles

    Fool on the Hill ~ The Beatles

    Day after day,
    Alone on a hill,
    The man with the foolish grin is keeping perfectly still
    But nobody wants to know him,
    They can see that he’s just a fool,
    And he never gives an answer,

    But the fool on the hill,
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    Well on the way,
    Head in a cloud,
    The man of a thousand voices talking perfectly loud
    But nobody ever hears him,
    or the sound he appears to make,
    and he never seems to notice,

    But the fool on the hill,
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    And nobody seems to like him,
    they can tell what he wants to do,
    and he never shows his feelings,

    But the fool on the hill,
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh,
    Round, round, round, round.

    He never listens to them,
    He knows that they’re the fools
    They don’t like him,

    The fool on the hill
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    Ooh,
    Round and round and round

    Physics/Math Homeschooling Update

    carol | October 23, 2009

    In grade eleven, two weeks after his sixteenth birthday, my oldest son completed The Mechanical Universe (university freshman physics text). He began Saxon Math 5/4 at age 7 1/2, and did every question in every Saxon Math book, including 6/5, 7/6, 8/7, Algebra 1/2, Algebra 1, Algebra 2, Advanced Math (Trigonometry), Calculus, and he just completed The Mechanical Universe (Physics). He is now starting Beyond The Mechanical Universe. He expects to finish it by the end of grade eleven and begin Chemical Principles (university freshman text) next summer before grade twelve. He has had no teacher except the textbooks.

    My second son began Saxon Math 5/4 as soon as he turned seven at the beginning of grade two. At this point, he has completed every problem in Saxon Math 5/4, 6/5, 7/6, and 8/7 and he is within days of finishing Saxon Algebra 1/2. He studies the lessons without a teacher and completely works the problems himself. He just turned eleven and is in the sixth grade.

    http://parentingfreedom.com/math/

    http://parentingfreedom.com/2009/02/28/math-method-explained/

    "Introducing children at the age of five into the structure and discipline of a classroom could even be harmful."

    carol | October 22, 2009

    I agree with this study, especially because I have a 5-year-old that is my fourth child. He plays, plays, plays, and we do very little schooling yet.

    Cambridge Study Says 5-year-olds Too Young To Start School
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2009/oct/09102105.html

    “A study of primary education by Cambridge University recommends that formal schooling of children should begin at the age of six, a year later than the present norm in the UK…”

    “No evidence suggesting formal teaching environments benefited young children…”

    “Introducing children at the age of five into the structure and discipline of a classroom could even be harmful…”

    “‘If they are already failing by the age of four-and-a-half or five it’s going to be quite difficult to get them back into the system again. They are not going to learn to read, write and add up if you have alienated them,’ Pugh said.”

    “The report recommends that children up to the age of six should instead continue the more informal, play-based education typically found in nurseries…”

    “Other studies have found marked negative effects from the introduction of 3 to 5 year olds to formal schooling, including brain chemistry damage, aggression, negative social and emotional development, and illness.”

    Dr. Mercola's Swine Flu Summary

    carol | October 21, 2009

    ALERT: Special Swine Flu Update
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/10/21/Special-Swine-Flu-Update.aspx

    Barack Obama: Obamacare "could give Planned Parenthood direct access to American schoolchildren at taxpayer expense."

    carol | October 19, 2009

    He promised to be on Planned Parenthood’s side. He voted four times in support of infanticide.

    Obamacare gives Planned Parenthood entry to schools?
    http://www.wnd.com/index.php?pageId=109450#

    “The House’s proposed health national health plan would establish ‘school-based health clinics’ on campuses, and one group is warning it could give Planned Parenthood direct access to American schoolchildren at taxpayer expense.”

    Change! ObamaCare will put Planned Parenthood clinics inside your child’s school
    http://theblogprof.blogspot.com/2009/10/change-obamacare-will-put-planned.html#

    ObamaCare will put Planned Parenthood clinics inside your child’s school
    http://lastdaywatchers.com/2009/09/obamacare-will-put-planned-parenthood-clinics-inside-your-childs-school/

    “Under an innocuous-sounding section titled ‘School-Based Health Clinics,’ H.R. 3200 will authorize Planned Parenthood, as a ‘sponsoring facility,’ to run a clinic during school hours on the grounds of public schools, with absolutely no accountability either to parents or school administrators.”

    Hat Tip: http://gatewaypundit.firstthings.com/2009/10/outrage-obamacare-will-put-planned-parenthood-clinics-inside-schools-next-year/

    http://www.stopp.org/plan.htm

    “Planned Parenthood Federation of America (PPFA) is the nation’s largest operator of abortion facilities and has admitted to committing over 3,000,000 post-implantation abortion procedures since it first started doing them in New York state in 1970.”

    First-class vaccine has fewer side effects. Sweet. :-/

    carol | October 19, 2009

    German officials reject charges of two-classes of swine-flu vaccines
    http://www.dw-world.de/dw/article/0,,4803801,00.html

    “The type of shot a person gets is to depend on their position in society, leading to complaints about a ‘second class’ swine-flu vaccine.”

    “Politicians, certain government employees and members of the German military are scheduled to receive one type of the swine flu vaccine, while average citizens in Germany are to receive a different one.”

    “The difference between the two vaccines is that the one meant for members of the government is said to have fewer side-effects. It also lacks certain additives which are said to be present in the version for the general population.”

    Internet Addiction

    carol | October 19, 2009

    20 Things I learned in my week without my computer (from Jennifer)
    http://www.conversiondiary.com/2009/10/20-things-i-learned-in-my-week-without.html

    7. “The internet tempts me to over-value my own opinions (especially micro-communication tools like Twitter and email). This week I caught myself hanging on to every single opinion I had about anything, a habit I’d formed from constantly emailing and tweeting friends with every little thought I had. When I wrote the ideas down on paper to express later by phone or in person, I realized that most of them were pretty inane, things that I would have forgotten about altogether in the days before I had an internet connection.”

    13. “Getting on my computer makes it very easy to forget what my goals for the day are. Especially because I have tendencies toward ADD, I go into ‘monkey with shiny object’ mode with all the great, interconnected information available on the internet; I all too easily get sucked in and completely forget what I was trying to accomplish in the day.”

    17. “The same force that drives people to slot machines is what drives me to my computer. I realized that when I mindlessly get online, every time I click it’s like pulling the lever on a slot machine and hoping to hit the jackpot. I’m hoping to hit a virtual jackpot — a blog post that changes my life, an email that blows me away, a hilarious video on YouTube, etc. And the truth is that there’s enough stuff online that if I clicked on enough links or spent enough time on email I would get that payoff I’m looking for. But, just like with slot machines, I need to be careful about spending endless amounts of time just sitting around pulling the lever.”

    "Time is not ours, but God's"

    carol | October 19, 2009

    The Domestic Monastery …
    http://www.lifeissues.net/writers/ron/ron_14domesticmonastery.html

    “For example, the mother who stays home with small children experiences a very real withdrawal from the world. Her existence is definitely monastic. Her tasks and preoccupations remove her from the centres of power and social importance. And she feels it. Moreover her sustained contact with young children (the mildest of the mild) gives her a privileged opportunity to be in harmony with the mild, that is, to attune herself to the powerlessness rather than to the powerful.”