PARENTING FREEDOM

attachment parenting, homeschooling, gentle discipline
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    Monday, February 20th, 2012 9:08 pm

    Big sister knows how to give little sister a fun time. C10 set up the doll bathtub complete with waterbaby, soap and towels all on the kitchen floor. The Baby (doll) was an angel, but the Mommy (C1) got a little drenched. Waterplay is so much fun for a one-year-old… Had a fun afternoon snowshoeing with a lovely homeschooling family…

  • .: Quotes :.

    "None are so hopelessly enslaved
    as those who falsely believe they are free."
    Goethe
  • Christmas Preparations 2011

    | November 30, 2011

    This year, we started decorating for Christmas earlier than ever (not last weekend, but the weekend before). Even though we don’t decorate that much, I knew it would take a while to get it done. I still don’t have the garland on the stair railing. As you can imagine, C1 was pretty excited with all the “new” things all over the living room. Usually we listen to Christmas music or watch a Christmas movie while decorating, but who can miss “Cheaper By the Dozen” when it is on TV?

    C1 concentrating on adding the lights to the ceramic tree

    L7 and C10 setting up the manger

    C1 examining the Baby Jesus

    C1 looking at the Jesse Tree ornaments and Christmas books

    C1 enjoying the Fisher-Price nativity scene

    Baby Jesus

    Here are some old pictures and comments regarding some of our Christmas traditions.
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/04/christmas-decorating-and-family-christmas-traditions/
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2009/12/28/decorating-for-christmas-2009/

    We are on the third Jesse tree devotion as we started early in hopes that we won’t have to double up or skip as many as usual. I haven’t done it “right” since the first year we tried it, and we even skipped last year completely. So far so good this year.

    Here is our Jesse Tree from 2008:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/04/family-christmas-tradition-jesse-tree/

    Here are a couple links to free Jesse Tree Devotions:
    http://www.aholyexperience.com/2010/11/free-jesse-tree-advent-devotional-book/
    http://www.scribd.com/doc/73429505/Jesse-Tree-Guide

    Although there is no problem fitting in the treat from the advent calendar house, we started that early, too, just because we were so excited. Beforehand, I had the kids sign a contract – no fighting, no jealousy, no complaining, etc. Greed, selfishness, and lack of appreciation can get out of hand if you aren’t prepared.

    The kids guessed ahead of time that the theme this year was Lego, and although there are two different Lego advent calendars available this year, I decided to buy the Lego figures/items of my choosing. The doors of our advent house are so small that hardly anything fits in, never mind enough things for FOUR children, so I put only C1′s treat behind the door. (I only fill one day at a time for her, because I would never tempt a one-year-old by filling all the little boxes and expecting her to not open them all, especially since I want to keep it at her level.) C1 doesn’t get Lego, but she does get something special behind each door each day. I hide the Lego baggies for the three older kids in three different rooms, so they can hunt like crazy and will only find their own treat. I was very tricky the first day and C10 and B13 had a very hard time finding their Lego. So much so, that I had to play “Hot” or “Cold” with one of them.

    Here is our advent calendar house from last year:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/12/31/christmas-2010-adventures-with-our-first-advent-calendar-house/

    Cara gave me a link to Cinnamon Bear audio stories recorded in 1937! That was when Grampie S. was only six years old! We’ve been listening to the stories during lunch and clean-up and have finished four already. It keeps C10 in the kitchen to clean out the dishwasher, too. She is the biggest fan of audio books although L7 seems to like them, too. C10 thought the children in the stories had whiny voices, but she agreed when I pointed out that the little girl sounded like Shirley Temple.

    Here are the Cinnamon Bear audio stories (24 Counting Down to Christmas):
    http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2011/11/28/the-cinnamon-bear-an-old-time-radio-christmas-tradition-4/

    I bought the Michael Bublé Christmas album on iTunes, and although it is nice, I realize I much prefer to listen to conservative talk radio.

    I remembered to buy the pre-built gingerbread house this year! Maybe I will buy some more candy decorations at the Bulk Barn if I think of it. The kids could always use more gumballs!

    I added the following new things to our Christmas decorations this year: a new ribbon (although I might be sorry because the sparkles seem to fall off too much) for the tree (which we don’t put up until closer to Christmas since we always get a real one), a pink decoration for C10′s pink tree, some blue trim for L7′s blue tree, and for the five Sundays of Advent, I bought new purple and white candles, a stand and greenery. We used our white candle for our Jack’o'Lantern on Hallowe’en.

    As I mentioned before, I cut down on gifts this year. I did most of our Christmas shopping online and have purchased everything already. As a Canadian, I had my first experience with Black Friday where I got a few great deals at Amazon.ca and .com.

    That’s all folks. Anything else you want to know? Have you come across any nice Christmas ideas that you want to share with me?

    If you rarely or have never commented on my blog, I would love to hear from you. Especially any real life friends who found my website through Facebook. I love to know who reads my posts. Hundreds of people visit my websites every day, but most land here looking for articles on specific subjects. I write personal posts like this for the special people who visit here on purpose, and it’s fun to know who you are! I hope you are enjoying your Christmas preparations, too!

    Edited to add:

    I started our annual reading aloud of “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” tonight.

    I am thinking I will get a puzzle with about 1000 pieces for the children to work on during the next few weeks.

    Add in Lego, tape, and a real baby sister, then my kids would definitely go for this:

    | November 30, 2011

    The 5 Best Toys of All Time
    http://www.wired.com/geekdad/2011/01/the-5-best-toys-of-all-time/all/1

    America Needs Sarah

    | November 29, 2011

    Conservatives are still trying to recruit Sarah Palin for President. She has been vetted more than any other political figure in history. She has come out squeaky clean. Republicans can be proud of her. She is a true conservative. Of the people. For the people.

    Each of the GOP candidates rise, then with media help, they decline. I’m still waiting for the mainstream media to vet Obama. They don’t seem to go after Romney because I think they want him as the GOP leader. Cain has dug his own grave. You don’t have dinner alone with another woman. Ever. Just the perception of impropriety is unacceptable, but it is especially important for a Christian or public figure (except Clinton). Now it is Gingrich’s turn to rise in the polls. Will his past infidelity be forgiven? I don’t know.

    It is hard to find someone these days with the whole package. Knowledge, morals, leadership, charisma. And isn’t every successful politician tall and reasonably good-looking with a big head?

    Here is the new ad being run this week in Iowa.

    The Challenge

    ABORTION: HELP TELL THE TRUTH!!!! TELL THE TRUTH!!!!

    | November 28, 2011

    Stanek weekend question: Which would be the more persuasive pro-life Super Bowl ad, graphic or nongraphic?
    http://www.jillstanek.com/2011/11/stanek-weekend-question-which-would-be-the-more-persuasive-pro-life-super-bowl-ad-graphic-or-nongraphic/

    “Pro-life activist Randall Terry is running for President of the United States precisely with the goal of running an ad during the Super Bowl game that shows the graphic reality of abortion.”

    PLEASE DONATE TO THIS CAMPAIGN (I did.):
    http://us4.campaign-archive2.com/?u=0be4082226c4e80d2b7582bef&id=028ddee653&e=14e919ba9c

    “You may remember the controversy last year regarding the Tim Tebow ads that ran during the Super Bowl. Unfortunately, by the time CBS was done taking every reference to abortion out of the ad many people did not even know that it was originally intended to be a pro-life ad. The Tebow family and their supporters from Focus on the Family were the victims of media censorship and bias.”

    “But because I am a federal candidate, television stations cannot deny, edit, or censor my television ads in any way, as long as I am within a 45 day window of a primary or a caucus in any given state. There are at least eight states where we will be able to run these ads during the playoffs/Super Bowl time frame.”

    I think Randall Terry has a brilliant idea. It is encouraging when a pro-life leader comes up with a new angle. EVERY new idea is worth trying.

    It is TIME for graphic abortion pictures to be shown to the masses. A country-wide graphic campaign might turn this bloody mess around. Pro-lifers shouldn’t let a news reporter film outside without a graphic abortion picture in the background. We need to be the mainstream media’s paparazzi and expect much more from the conservative media. As hard as it might be to believe, people still don’t know the truth. They continue to be shocked at the graphic pictures. That’s hard to understand, too, because everyone seems to know about the life of the unborn through ultrasound, etc. What do they THINK those babies look like dead? It doesn’t cross their minds. We need to show them. Expose this holocaust with the TRUTH.

    Chronological Photo Index of first trimester aborted babies.

    Photographs of late-term abortions.

    Photographs of aborted babies at various stages, retrieved from dumpsters.

    18 Years in a Blur

    | November 27, 2011

    Oldest was heading back to university tonight. I asked Derek if N18 put his dorm keys in his diaper bag. (I meant backpack.)

    “Quebec to ban prayer in home-based daycares”

    | November 26, 2011

    Quebec to ban prayer in home-based daycares
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/quebec-to-ban-prayer-in-home-based-daycares

    “Jean Charest’s Liberal government issued a directive last December stipulating that government-funded daycares must not offer any activity that aims to teach a belief, dogma, or practice of a particular religion.”

    “The directive, which took effect June 1st, banned religious prayers, crafts, and songs – including many Christmas carols…”

    “Now the Ministry of Families and Seniors has indicated they will extend the ban into home-run daycares that are subsidized by the government.”

    Sex Education Moves to Grade Three

    | November 26, 2011

    Don’t confuse me

    http://www.canadianvalues.ca/SCC/index.html

    “Those who some see as an “inconvenience” are really our greatest blessings”

    | November 26, 2011

    Exclusive: Sarah Palin’s Thanksgiving Message
    http://m.cbn.com/blogs/thebrodyfile/archive/2011/11/23/exclusive-sarah-palins-thanksgiving-message.aspx

    “…This need for selflessness – and the blessings that come with it – sharpened for me almost four years ago when I was given the gift of broader horizons, clarified priorities, and more commitment to justice and compassion for my fellow man who faces challenges and fears. I was granted this through a gift that arrived in a tiny, six-pound, awe-inspiring bundle. We named him Trig.”

    “I know America’s potential for goodness, thus greatness, because I see it every day through my son. Nothing makes me happier or prouder than to see America’s good heart when someone smiles at my Trig. I notice it happens often in airports. Often a traveler passing by does a double-take when they see him, perhaps curious about the curious look on his face; perhaps my son momentarily exercises an uncontrollable motion that takes the passerby by surprise. Perhaps, as an innocent and candid child announced when she first met Trig, they think “he’s awkward.” But when that traveler pauses to look again and smile, and maybe tells me what a handsome boy I have, I swell with American pride. I am so thankful for their good heart. They represent the best in our country and their kindness shows the real hope we need today.”

    “I am thankful that, as in so many areas of life, the bitter people who say bitter things about someone facing challenges are so outnumbered. There have been stinging criticisms, even from people still screaming that Trig should never have been born, but we know those critics may be the loudest and most malicious, but they’re not the majority.”

    “To me, when individuals reflect the greater societal acceptance of someone facing challenges, they show the best of humanity – even by offering a simple pat on Trig’s head or a knowing smile shot our way. Conversely, when a society works to eliminate the “weakest links” (as some would callously consider the disabled) or “the unproductive” (as some would callously consider the very young and the very old), it eliminates the very best of itself. When a society seeks to destroy them, it also destroys any ability or need for sincere compassion, empathy, improvement, and even goodwill. And those are the very best qualities of humanity! Those are the characteristics of a country that understands and embraces true hope! America can be compassionate and strong enough as a nation to be entrusted with those who some see as an “inconvenience,” but who are really our greatest blessings. Through Trig, I see firsthand that there is man’s standard of perfection, and then there is God’s. Man’s standard is flawed, temporary, and shallow. God’s standard lasts an eternity. At the end of the day, His is what matters.”

    “So, this Thanksgiving my family will bundle Trig up and grin while we watch him through ice-frosted eyelashes as he curiously takes in all that is around him in the crisp open air. I hope your Thanksgiving gives you the opportunity to find that reminder of what really matters, too. For me, my perfect picture of thankfulness is my perfectly awesome son. With him, all is well with my soul and I know I am blessed.”

    “They’ll try to push drugs. Keep us all dumbed down and hope that we will never see the truth around.”

    | November 25, 2011

    Muse – Uprising (HQ)

    Uprising ~ Muse

    The paranoia is in bloom, the PR
    The transmissions will resume
    They’ll try to push drugs
    Keep us all dumbed down and hope that
    We will never see the truth around
    (So come on!)

    Another promise, another scene, another
    A package not to keep us trapped in greed
    With all the green belts wrapped around our minds

    And endless red tape to keep the truth confined
    (So come on!)

    They will not force us
    They will stop degrading us
    They will not control us
    We will be victorious

    Interchanging mind control
    Come let the revolution take its toll if you could
    Flick a switch and open your third eye, you’d see that
    We should never be afraid to die
    (So come on!)

    Rise up and take the power back, it’s time that
    The fat cats had a heart attack, you know that
    Their time is coming to an end
    We have to unify and watch our flag ascend

    They will not force us
    They will stop degrading us
    They will not control us
    We will be victorious

    Hey .. hey … hey .. hey!
    Hey .. hey … hey .. hey!

    They will not force us
    They will stop degrading us
    They will not control us
    We will be victorious

    Hey .. hey … hey .. hey!
    Hey .. hey … hey .. hey!

    Forget something, Doctor?

    | November 24, 2011

    Report questions Canada’s surgeons
    http://www.ottawacitizen.com/health/Report%2Bquestions%2BCanada%2Bsurgeons/5758769/story.html#ixzz1efdgOKZ1

    “Canadians scheduled to go under the knife take note: Canada has the third-highest incidence of “foreign bodies” being left inside patients after surgeons sew them up…”

    “Accidental puncture or laceration during surgery was the highest among the 17 countries where results were reported…”

    “The rate of foreign bodies – sponges, metal instruments, etc. – left in during a procedure, at 9.7 per 100,000 hospitalizations…”

    Kept in a Box

    | November 23, 2011

    Why We Don’t Need “Women’s” Ministry
    http://www.churchleaders.com/pastors/pastor-articles/155219-sarah-bessey-why-women-s-ministry-needs-jesus.html

    Hat Tip: http://www.thatmom.com/

    Empathy

    | November 23, 2011

    I like this one, although if I dig further into their views, I do disagree about their ways to solve the world’s problems.

    The mirroring thing is dead on. It is especially fascinating in regard to child development and also has a big effect when it comes to health problems. You can take on others’ illnesses and conflicts and make yourself sick.

    I have a strong connection to empathy. I tend to take on others’ problems. This is something I am working on in order to best help others.

    RSA Animate – The Empathic Civilisation

    Some Good Points

    | November 23, 2011

    12 Ways to Mess Up Your Kids
    http://www.theatlantic.com/life/archive/2011/10/12-ways-to-mess-up-your-kids/246806/1/?single_page=true

    “Disciplined to Death”

    | November 23, 2011

    Disciplined to Death
    http://www.crosswalk.com/news/disciplined-to-death-michael-debi-pearl.html?ps=0

    The Poor in North America

    | November 23, 2011

    Are the poor getting poorer?

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