PARENTING FREEDOM

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    “To see what is in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle.”
    George Orwell, 1946
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  • Canada Day Lamentations

    carol | July 12, 2010

    Happy Canada Day by Michael Coren
    http://www.proudtobecanadian.ca/blog/index/writergroup/happy_canada_day/

    “Canada Day. Denial Day. Complacency Day. A day for playing with fireworks while the country burns. Wave the flag. Wave a cloth adorned with a piece of vegetation in the colours of the Liberal Party, one with little tradition and less meaning. No. Many Canadians remember the great emblem that once adorned our dominion, containing the cross, the symbol of ancient and eternal wisdom and truth.”

    “Do what the government tells you, allow your rights to be expunged and smile as the norms that made the country great are parodied while at the same a stew of twisted realities are paraded. No. Many Canadians are tired of the intrusions of the state and the relentless attacks from alleged “alternative” lifestyles.”

    “Protect children but destroy childhood, make a fetish of equality but allow elites to impose their ways and rule our country. Claim to respect diversity but be horribly intolerant of anybody who resists the liberal status quo. No. Many Canadians are tired of the twin monsters of materialism and decadence. They have had enough of public educators telling young people how to live but not how to read and write. Nor will they remain silent when told to do so by the princes of political correctness.”

    Park in a handicapped parking spot and you’ll be charged and fined. Abort a handicapped baby or kill a terminally ill handicapped person and you’ll receive an Order of Canada and a government grant. No. Many Canadians are waking up to the country’s destruction of entire generations of the unborn and the obsession with euthanasia and the killing of those who are no longer bold and beautiful.”

    “Have perverse sex, take your clothes off in public, swear on television and insult people’s deeply held beliefs, but you don’t dare do it while smoking a cigarette or without wearing a seat belt in the car. No. Many Canadians are repulsed by the hypocrisy. They know there are moral as well as physical ills that plague our country and that it is pointless to save a body if the spirit and soul is destroyed.”

    “Blithely pay $20million a week to the CBC so that ludicrously biased people can tell us about what our own country means. Allow unions there and elsewhere to dictate national policy without any democratic or constitutional right. No. Many Canadians have seen through the façade of double standards in broadcasting as well as the extremism of so many in the labor movement.”

    “Satirize the United States and comfort and define ourselves by what we are not. Hate the best neighbors a nation could have merely because we know they will respond with kindness. No. Many Canadians understand that it is we who are often parochial and they who are prestigious. They know that lack of gratitude is the weapon of the spoilt child.”

    “Pay tax after tax and yet see education and healthcare deteriorate before our very eyes. Never look at the authentic causes of gangs and violence because it may reveal dangerous truths. No. Many Canadians now want to keep their own money and do not trust the government to spend it. Nor do they believe the politicians and their explanations about inner city crime.”

    “Canada Day. Kill God, kill man and kill truth. No. Save the country. Not from others but from itself. It’s up to you, the many Canadians, even if you don’t yet know it.”

    Pregnancy/Family Update… Baby Names Suggestions Welcome

    carol | May 11, 2010

    I used to post more of my own material for my website, but for the past long while, it seems I only link to other articles with the occasional personal comment here and there. I am sorry that I haven’t had the strength nor the inspiration for creative writing during the past six months. I haven’t been able to blog the story of this pregnancy either because it’s been just too emotional and difficult.

    I apologize for either not responding at all or only half-heartedly to the encouraging comments and emails I have received during the past several months. I used to reply every time, but lately it has been exhausting, and sometimes I just don’t know what to say. I do appreciate when you take the time to write to me, and I will try to do better in replying. Thank you!

    I am doing better healthwise. I still get extremely fatigued, but unlike the first 20 weeks of this pregnancy, I have been improving instead of getting worse. That was so scary. I can finally cope and even do things which makes me very encouraged and hopeful. I am also beginning to stop worrying about miscarrying.

    I went to my first (and only so far) prenatal appointment and heard the baby’s heartbeat. I get Braxton Hicks contractions. I feel the baby kicking some. The hiccups seem to indicate that baby’s head is down. If that is the case, I pray it stays that way.


    Me – Almost 25 weeks pregnant
    (I can’t get Derek to stop taking worm’s eye view pictures.)

    I stuck to the vegan diet for about six weeks, but since I kept getting more sick, I made some changes. I still make vegetable smoothies, almond/grape milk, take all my supplements, and continue to make better choices and avoid most unhealthy foods. I have continued to make Sunday night fruit smoothies for the family, and I bought quite a few containers to make homemade smoothie popsicles, both of which the children love.


    Vegetable smoothie that turns into a bubbling crude


    Vegetable smoothie and fruit salad


    Fruit smoothie ingredients


    Homemade smoothie popsicles in the freezer

    I haven’t scrapbooked for 3 1/2 years, so I felt bad that I was so far behind with a little baby on the way. Just because this baby is the fifth child shouldn’t mean he or she doesn’t get pictures in an album. Inspired by the very talented Kelle of Enjoying the Small Things, I have discovered the wonderful world of photobooking. Kelle does digital scrapbooking and then has her beautiful pages collected in photobooks. I would love to do digital scrapbooking, yet I can’t figure out how to get started at all. Photobooking has been wonderfully easy with delightful results (not magnificent like Kelle’s, but satisfactory to me right now). I finally feel productive after many months of getting nothing done. That has been very hard on my head since my mind wants me to go, go, go. Just during the past few weeks, I completed three albums (January – June 2009, July – December 2009, January – June 2008), and I almost have July – December 2008 finished. Hopefully all of 2007 will fit in one album. I will then have only January – June 2010 to finish before the baby!  Lovely. I look forward to taking family pictures this fall.

    We thought we had our baby names, but it seems there are too many people with the same names. I would welcome any baby names suggestions (in the comments below). I can’t find a good baby names website, so I would appreciate any tips in that area as well.

    It has been a sad week in our community with the tragic death of a fourteen-year-old girl who lived up the road from us. She died in a car accident. Her mother is one of the sweetest, friendliest people I know. She is the kind of person who would get voted Miss Congeniality in the real world. What a devastating loss to their little family. Unbearable. http://nethymnal.org/htm/b/e/bestill.htm

    The children are continuing to do their school work. Usually they have most subjects finished by mid-May, but this year, most subjects will likely go until the end of June. The 3 R’s will continue throughout the summer because of the baby and Derek’s job situation. The older boys have been dipping into their next year’s book stash. They just can’t help it – especially those Glenn Beck recommendations. They also received a new box of books with Canadian content yesterday. http://www.freedompress.ca/

    Jean Chretien: A Legacy of Scandal ~ Paul Tuns
    As I See It ~ Michael Coren
    Standing on Guard for Thee ~ Michael Wagner
    Loyal to the Core: Stephen Harper, Me and the NCC ~ Gerry Nicholls
    The Great Canadian Comedy: From Laughter To Tears ~ Joe Campbell
    Stop the Presses! ~ Joseph Farah

    I bought another Willow Tree ornament because of the new baby. This will be our family in August. :-)

    I would love to hear from you. Certain blogging decisions I have made over the past couple years has resulted in less reader feedback, so it is encouraging to hear from those of you who still visit my website.

    Now, back to politics as usual… ;-)

    Spring Pictures

    carol | May 11, 2010

    Here are some of our spring pictures that I am willing to share publicly. Go here for the private pictures: http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/05/11/spring-pictures/ (Send me information about yourself if you want access.)


    First backyard soccer of the season – April 6, 2010
    B11, L5, C8


    C8 enjoys listening to audio books on her MP3 player
    April 12, 2010


    Inspired by a library book


    Paint – April 23, 2010


    Brushes


    Backyard soccer with Daddy
    April 25, 2010

    We got our trampoline last year, and I am surprised that it continues to be greatly enjoyed by all of them – especially when they use nerf swords and have jumping battles.


    The day the trampoline was put together again
    May 1, 2010


    Father and Daughter
    May 2, 2010


    Derek and the children at the beach


    Note the American Girl doll in the doll back carrier
    with foam rollers in her hair while her mother plays soccer.
    May 8, 2010


    Fiddlehead picking on Saturday (Not so pretty, eh?)

    Easter Sunday 2010

    carol | April 5, 2010


    Easter Egg Hunt
    (Each child searches for his or her own color of eggs.
    Completely fair with four children of greatly varying ages!)


    Opening the eggs


    Treats inside the eggs


    Play-dough

    On the way home from Nana’s delicious Easter dinner:


    Two eagles were floating on icecakes.
    They kept flying up river, so they could float down again.


    Eagle

    Click here for private pictures:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/04/05/easter-sunday-2010/

    Spring and Easter Pictures

    carol | April 3, 2010


    Doing the Easter story


    Easter craft


    Sign of spring: fly swatting sport


    Spring flowers (We actually found the first two dandelions yesterday.)


    Yum!


    L5′s masterpieces


    Candy sprinkles


    More Easter cookies


    Sprinkles on the floor


    Twitterpated doves


    C8


    La di da!


    The mess


    Falls

    Click here for private pictures:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/04/03/spring-and-easter-pictures/

    Healthcare Thoughts :-(

    carol | March 21, 2010

    “The problem with socialism is you run out of other people’s money.”
    Margaret Thatcher.

    RIP capitalism in America 1776-2010. They say an empire only lasts 200 years, so I guess it was on borrowed time.

    Stupak – didn’t think there was such a thing as a pro-life Democrat.

    If all this completely passes, there will be no going back. The sense of entitlement becomes entrenched even if the healthcare is terrible, and the country is going bankrupt.

    Very few Canadians care that we pay for the slaughter of 100,000+ unborn babies every year.

    Edited to add:
    How Liberty Dies

    Conservative Party of Canada showing a little social conservatism on daycare and family planning – or maybe not

    carol | March 18, 2010

    Prime Minister Harper Addresses Marijuana, National Day Care
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10031708.html

    “Turning to a question on his government’s decision not to embark on a national day care plan, Harper said that the existing measures for helping parents with the cost of child care – whether it be through institutionalized care or by looking after their own children at home – are approved by most Canadians.”

    “‘There are a range of things we do in Canada to support the childcare choices of Canadians. I think our approach has been well received by Canadians,’ Harper stated.”

    “Enumerating the various measures in place to assist parents, the PM remarked that ‘a lot of Canadians have a lot of different childcare needs.’”

    “‘Canadians want to make their own childcare decisions,’ the PM stated, observing that ‘we had a previous government that promised to create a national childcare system for many years. They spent billions of dollars. Canadian parents never saw any of that. So we took that money, put it into direct support for Canadian parents so they can make their own childcare choices.’”

    Maternal Health Plan about Saving Lives, not “Family Planning”: Canadian Foreign Affairs Minister
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10031710.html

    “Family planning and contraception are not included in Canada’s new maternal and child health initiative, insisted Foreign Affairs Minister Lawrence Cannon Tuesday.”

    “‘This [initiative] does not deal in any way, shape, or form with family planning,’ he told the House of Commons foreign affairs committee. ‘Indeed, the purpose of this is to be able to save lives. Too many people are losing their lives on a yearly basis…’”

    “The Conservative government has since stated that abortion is not part of their plan…”

    “In an interview with Canwest after the meeting, Cannon, who favours the “right” to abortion, appeared to distance himself from the government’s position, but reaffirmed that position nevertheless.”

    “‘Everybody knows what my position is but from a government position, this policy, this announcement by the prime minister has nothing to do with what you’re raising,’ he said. An aide confirmed to Canwest afterwards that Cannon was referring to his ‘pro-choice’ stance.”

    Edited to add:
    PM Harper “Caves”: “Not Closing the Door” on Contraception in G8 Maternal Health Push
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10031911.html

    “75% of Canadians Say ‘Abortion is Morally Wrong’”

    carol | March 17, 2010

    75% of Canadians Say “Abortion is Morally Wrong”: Poll
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10031605.html

    “A large majority of Canadians are increasingly embracing conservative values, including opposing abortion and supporting the true definition of marriage.”

    The Lifestyles People Have…

    carol | February 26, 2010

    IOC to Investigate Canadian Women’s Hockey Team For Drinking Beer & Smoking On the Ice
    http://gatewaypundit.firstthings.com/2010/02/ioc-to-investigate-canadian-womens-hockey-team-for-drinking-beer-smoking-on-the-ice/

    “...swigging from bottles of champagne, guzzling beer and smoking cigars” on the ice.

    “Poulin, who scored both goals, doesn’t turn 19 — legal drinking age in British Columbia — until next month. The drinking age in Alberta, where the Canadian team trains, is 18. Photos showed Poulin on the ice with a beer in her hand.” AP

    Canadian Pro-Life Ad

    carol | January 18, 2010

    While watching TV on the weekend (specifically, To Kill a Mockingbird 1962), I was suprised to see this ad:

    http://www.veritaspictures.com/clients/PO/9063/VM-VAN-30C-3.mov

    http://www.allianceforlife.org/

    Autumn in Atlantic Canada

    carol | December 27, 2009

    More September Pictures Set 2

    carol | December 26, 2009

    September Pictures of the Children Set 2

    carol | December 26, 2009

    I only posted pictures up to the end of August 2009, so I thought I might catch up a little. Most of the posts will be private, but I will publicly post some of the pictures of the children with their backs to the camera, as well as scenery.

    The True North (not so) strong and (not so) free!

    carol | December 21, 2009

    Canada : Hijacked by Big Brother – The Surveillance State

    “They who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety.” Benjamin Franklin

    H1N1 Vaccine Recall in Canada

    carol | November 24, 2009

    GlaxoSmithKline Recalls H1N1 Vaccine in Canada Over ‘Life-Threatening’ Allergy Risk
    http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,576526,00.html?test=latestnews

    “The pharmaceutical company GlaxoSmithKline says it has advised medical staff in Canada to not use one batch of swine flu vaccine for fear it may trigger life-threatening allergies.”

    “She declined to say how many doses had been administered before the advice to stop using them was given.”

    Which of the following shocked me more this week?

    carol | October 10, 2009

    1. Barack Hussein Obama (President Infanticide himself) won the Nobel Peace Prize for hope-for-change. I will likely be getting a Peace Prize any day now because I hope for world peace and also one in Medicine because I hope for an end to cancer. Did Obama win the Nobel Prize for Chemistry, too? He has such chemistry.
    http://www.conservatives4palin.com/2009/10/obamas-nobel-roundup.html

    OR

    2. The New York Times published pictures of aborted babies. Wow. I have been waiting for this day for the past 25 years.
    http://lens.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/10/09/behind-19/
    Hat Tip: http://www.jillstanek.com/archives/2009/10/breaking_news_n_4.html

    OR

    3. Province studies legislation to protect newborns
    http://telegraphjournal.canadaeast.com/search/article/819774

    Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper Singing Beatles Song

    carol | October 4, 2009

    Stephen Harper sings Beatles song with Yo Yo Ma

    Sounds like somebody has Beatles Rockband. ;-)

    PLEASE, Prime Minister Harper, give your Members of Parliament the freedom to speak up for the right to life for everyone in Canada from conception to natural death.

    Please find it in your heart to care about the thousands of unborn Canadian children who are being slaughtered in our hospitals and abortion clinics. It has been forty years of open season on unborn babies in Canada.

    As Prime Minister, you have been given the power to make changes that would protect the lives of these innocent human beings. It will be a heavy burden to carry if you continue to ignore the cries of Canadian unborn children.

    “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin.”
    James 4:17

    “Deliver those who are drawn toward death,
    And hold back those stumbling to the slaughter.
    If you say, ‘Surely we did not know this,’
    Does not He who weighs the hearts consider it?
    He who keeps your soul, does He not know it?
    And will He not render to each man according to his deeds?”

    Proverbs 24:11-12

    “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”
    2 Chronicles 7:14

    Canadians on Health Care: "Don't do what we've done. We will lose our escape valve."

    carol | September 30, 2009

    The Real Canadian Health Care Field Trip 2009
    http://gatewaypundit.blogspot.com/2009/09/real-canadian-health-care-field-trip.html