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    Friday, December 21st, 2012 10:23 am

    Hundreds of hurting people visit here every day, most of whom are searching for comfort after loss. Please reach out for emotional support as you begin the healing process. Be patient with yourself. Allow yourself to grieve. Let it out. May God be with you.

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    “It was important, Dumbledore said, to fight, and fight again, and keep fighting, for only then could evil be kept at bay, though never quite eradicated…”
    Half-Blood Prince
  • From the “Women are Dirt” Series

    | April 17, 2012

    History: The original feminism and the rise of Christianity
    http://www.leithart.com/2012/03/28/the-original-feminism-and-the-rise-of-christianity/

    New study indicates baby girls targeted for abortion in Ontario
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/new-study-indicates-baby-girls-targeted-for-abortion-in-ontario

    Author: I was ‘blown away’ by Pope Paul VI’s accurate predictions about the sexual revolution
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/author-i-was-blown-away-by-pope-paul-vis-accurate-predictions-about-the-sex

    Somebody Needs to Nail This on Some Church Doors

    | March 8, 2012

    ‘What is the big deal about Catholics using birth control?’
    www.lifesitenews.com/blog/what-is-the-big-deal-about-catholics-using-birth-control

    Time To Admit It: The Church Has Always Been Right On Birth Control
    http://www.businessinsider.com/time-to-admit-it-the-church-has-always-been-right-on-birth-control-2012-2#ixzz1oXJje69L

    “Today’s injunctions against birth control were re-affirmed in a 1968 document by Pope Paul VI called Humanae Vitae. He warned of four results if the widespread use of contraceptives was accepted:

         1. General lowering of moral standards
          2. A rise in infidelity, and illegitimacy
          3. The reduction of women to objects used to satisfy men.
          4. Government coercion in reproductive matters.”

    Life is Short.

    | March 4, 2012

    “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” James 4:14

    Five For Fighting – 100 Years


    100 Years ~ Five For Fighting

    I’m fifteen for a moment
    Caught in between ten and twenty
    And I’m just dreaming
    Counting the ways to where you are

    I’m twenty-two for a moment
    And she feels better than ever
    And we’re on fire
    Making our way back from my house

    Fifteen…. There’s still time for you
    Time to buy and time to lose
    Fifteen… There’s never a wish better than this
    When you only got a hundred years to live

    I’m thirty-three for a moment
    Still the man, but you see, I’m a they
    A kid on the way, babe
    A family on my mind

    I’m forty-five for a moment
    The sea is high
    And I’m heading into a crisis
    Chasing the years of my life

    Fifteen… There’s still time for you
    Time to buy and time to lose yourself
    Within a morning star

    Fifteen… I’m all right with you
    Fifteen… There’s never a wish better than this
    When you only got a hundred years to live

    Half time goes by
    Suddenly you’re wise
    Another blink of an eye
    Sixty-seven is gone
    The sun is getting high
    We’re moving on…

    I’m ninety-nine for a moment
    And time for just another moment
    And I’m just dreaming
    Counting the ways to where you are

    Fifteen…. There’s still time for you
    Twenty-two…. I feel her too
    Thirty-three…. You’re on your way
    Every day’s a new day

    Fifteen…. There’s still time for you
    Time to buy and time to choose, hey
    Fifteen…. There’s never a wish better than this
    When you only got a hundred years to live

    Inspired by Andrew Breitbart’s Courage

    | March 2, 2012

    I haven’t been this affected by a death in quite some time. I feel so sad. There are so very few leaders on our side.

    I remember Breitbart telling the audience at CPAC that he was so busy talking and sharing with people that he didn’t take time to shower and clean up before his speech (which would be available for millions to see on the internet). That showed me his passion and his priorities.

    I found this family photo online which was taken a few years ago. May God comfort and provide for his dear family.

    I was so looking forward to Breitbart’s leadership during this election season. What a terrible loss. I watched many of the tributes to him today, with everyone mentioning his powerful courage and enthusiasm.

    Jonah Goldberg pointed out that Breitbart “truly loved the fight … One of his favorite pastimes was to retweet all of the hate that people threw at him because he considered it a badge of honor.”

    When nasty comments are directed at me, I give them little consideration in order to protect myself. Maybe the next time somebody tells me I’m going to hell because I don’t beat my kids, I’ll collect it under a category called “Badge of Honor”. Maybe the next time I am mocked with filthy disdain for having and homeschooling five children, I’ll consider it a pat on the back.

    Of all the wonderful comments by all of the great conservative leaders, I found these words by Congressman Louie Gohmert to be among the most touching, especially the ending.

    Rep. Louie Gohmert Pays Tribute to Andrew Breitbart

    “Thank you dear God, for the gift of Andrew Breitbart. We wish we could have kept him longer, but thank you for this marvelous gift.”

    That’s also a good way to look at my baby whom I lost before birth.

    I think Breitbart’s legacy will be one that inspires courage and passion. I think the thousands who have been touched by his life and saddened by his death will stand up for the truth. We will stand a little straighter, and a little taller – a little louder, and a little stronger.

    Onward, Christian soldiers, marching as to WAR…

    New Kirk Cameron Movie: Monumental

    | February 28, 2012

    http://www.theblaze.com/stories/actor-kirk-camerons-monumental-film-tries-to-rediscover-americas-national-treasure/

    Monumental Trailer

    What is one controlling influence you might give up for forty days?

    | February 22, 2012

    I’m not Catholic and neither is the author of the post at the link below, but it sounds like something I might try. Today is the first day of Lent. Hmmm… What is one controlling influence I could give up for forty days? Facebook? Junk food? Television? Maybe a little of everything?

    The Opportunity of Lent
    http://www.becomingminimalist.com/2012/02/21/the-opportunity-of-lent/

    Update: I am curious to see how abstaining from the following things that I perceive as generally negative will impact the quality of our family life. It is time to rein in some of these negative influences.

    • Two children are giving up junk food (unless it is the main course).
    • One child is giving up television (unless the show is a new family movie or a new “The Middle”). (This will mean everybody gives up television!) and video games (except for Saturday morning).
    • One child is giving up iPod and television (and that is the 17-month-old LOL).
    • I am giving up Facebook (logged out and deleted it on iPod and computer), soft drinks (Even though I abstained for about fifteen years, I have recently been drinking Coke 1-2 times per week), chocolate, junk food (unless it is the main course), a big chunk of websites in my Google Reader, shows I have set to record in my PVR (except for two), FOX News (unless I hear about world events that would affect me)… If it were not for significant health breakthroughs, I would not be able to commit to these things.

    CHOOSE A Better Path

    | February 22, 2012

    Knowing God

    Limbless Motivational Speaker Lives Life to the Fullest, Spotted Honeymooning in Hawaii
    http://www.theblaze.com/stories/limbless-motivational-speaker-lives-life-to-the-fullest-spotted-honeymooning-in-hawaii/

    We’re Not in Kansas Anymore. It’s An Abortion World.

    | February 16, 2012

    A suffering
    http://www.jillstanek.com/2012/02/a-suffering/

    “Out on the sidewalk Donna and I had spoken to a woman for over 20 minutes and she agreed with everything we said. She agreed the unborn baby was human, and that the baby had a right to live. She even agreed that abortion was a sin, but in the end she went into the clinic… I was gripped by a realization. I thought, ‘I’m not living in a normal world anymore.’” Monica Miller

    I can so relate to this article. This realization is probably the most disturbing thing about our time. People no longer have a value system. They have no moral code to strive toward or live by. Regarding abortion, they know it’s a baby, but they choose abortion anyway.

    And they are not willing to consider any other point of view.

    I had a letter from a mother the other day about spanking, and she said, “I will not now or ever agree with your way of thinking.” It is so sad to see others not open to learning and being moved by the Holy Spirit.

    “But whoever shall offend one of these little ones who believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.” Matthew 18:6

    It is proving true that morals and values don’t matter outside of Christianity.

    Keep in mind, Freedom FROM Sin is NOT Freedom TO Sin… You shall know them by their fruits…

    | January 15, 2012

    Some thoughts… There are a lot of very good points in this video/poem… BUT… He unfortunately sounds like he was raised in an authoritarian home and in a church without grace… Legalism might be a better word choice than religion in some parts of the poem… He starts out with a lot of stereotypes that are not always the case… I do think he is addressing the reality for a lot of young people who are Christian only in heritage… I do wonder about what will happen with the loss of an organized Christian religion. A house divided containing lots of little people thinking we can go it on our own… The fact is, people are like sheep. They will collect and follow a leader… Don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater… The Democratic social policies are definitely not Christian… My religion IS Christianity, and the Church is made up of believers everywhere. You shall know them by their fruits…

    Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus || Spoken Word

    What if I told you Jesus came to abolish religion?

    What if I told you voting Republican really wasn’t his mission?

    What if I told you “Republican” doesn’t automatically mean “Christian”?

    And just because you call some people “blind” doesn’t automatically give you vision?

    I mean, if religion is so great, why has it started so many wars?

    Why does it build huge churches but fails to feed the poor?

    Tells single moms God doesn’t love them if they’ve ever had a divorce?

    But in the Old Testament God actually calls religious people “whores”

    Religion might preach grace, but another thing they practice

    Tend to ridicule God’s people, they did it to John the Baptist

    They can’t fix their problems, and so they just mask it

    Not realizing religion’s like spraying perfume on a casket

    See, the problem with religion is it never gets to the core

    It’s just behavior modification, like a long list of chores

    Like, “Let’s dress up the outside, make it look nice and neat”

    But it’s funny, that’s what they used to do to mummies while the corpse rots underneath

    Now I ain’t judging, I’m just sayin’, “Quit puttin’ on a fake look”

    ’Cause there’s a problem if people only know that you’re a Christian by your Facebook

    I mean, in every other aspect of life, you know that logic’s unworthy

    It’s like saying you play for the Lakers just because you bought a jersey

    See this was me, too, but no one seemed to be on to me

    Actin’ like church kid while addicted to pornography

    See, on Sunday I’d go to church, but Saturday gettin’ faded

    Actin’ as if I was simply created to just have sex and get wasted

    See, I spent my whole life buildin’ this façade of neatness

    But now that I know Jesus, I boast in my weakness

    Because if grace is water, then the church should be an ocean

    It’s not a museum for good people; it’s a hospital for the broken

    Which means I don’t have to hide my failure, I don’t have to hide my sin

    ’Cause it doesn’t depend on me; it depends on him

    See, because when I was God’s enemy and certainly not a fan

    He looked down and said, “I want that man!”

    Which is why Jesus hated religion, and for it he called them fools

    Don’t you see it’s so much better than just following some rules?

    Now lemme clarify: I love the church, I love the Bible, and yes, I believe in sin

    But if Jesus came to your church, would they actually let him in?

    See, remember he was called a “glutton” and a “drunkard” by “religious men”

    But the Son of God never supports self-righteousness; not now, not then

    Now back to the point: One thing is vital to mention

    How Jesus and religion are on opposite spectrums

    See, one’s the work of God, but one’s a man-made invention

    See, one is the cure, but the other’s the infection

    See, because religion says “do,” Jesus says “done”

    Religion says “slave,” Jesus says “son”

    Religion puts you in bondage while Jesus sets you free

    Religion makes you blind, but Jesus makes you see

    And that’s why religion and Jesus are two different clans

    Religion is man searching for God; Christianity is God searching for man

    Which is why salvation is freely mine, and forgiveness is my own

    Not based on my merits but Jesus’ obedience alone

    Because he took the crown of thorns, and the blood dripped down his face

    He took what we all deserved; I guess that’s why you call it “grace”

    And while being murdered he yelled, “Father forgive them; they know not what they do”

    Because when he was dangling on that cross, he was thinking of you

    And he absorbed all your sin, and he buried it in the tomb

    Which is why I’m kneeling at the cross, saying, “Come on! There’s room!”

    So for religion, no, I hate it; in fact, I literally resent it

    Because when Jesus said, “It is finished,” I believe he meant it

    ‘Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus’: Controversial Viral Video Logs 10 Million Hits in Four Days
    http://www.theblaze.com/stories/why-i-hate-religion-but-love-jesus-controversial-viral-video-logs-10-million-hits-in-four-days/

    UPDATED TO ADD:
    Why I Love Religion, And Love Jesus || Spoken Word

    Tim Tebow, Fifth Child, Mother Refused to Abort Him

    | January 15, 2012

    Tim Tebow – Born a Preacher
    http://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2012/01/tim-tebow-born-a-preacher/

    “More than 24 years ago, Pam and her husband Bob were serving as missionaries in the Philippines and praying for a fifth child. Pam contracted amoebic dysentery, an infection of the intestine caused by a parasite found in contaminated food or drink. She went into a coma and was treated with strong antibiotics before they discovered she was pregnant. Doctors suggested that she consider aborting the baby for her own safety and told her that the medicines had caused irreversible damage to her baby. She refused the abortion and cited her Christian faith as the reason for her hope that her son would be born without the devastating disabilities physicians predicted.”

    “While pregnant, Pam nearly lost their baby four times but refused to consider abortion. She recalled making a pledge to God with her husband: If you will give us a son, we’ll name him Timothy and we’ll make him a preacher.”

    “Pam ultimately spent the last two months of her pregnancy in bed and eventually gave birth to a healthy baby boy August 14, 1987. Pam’s youngest son is indeed a preacher. He preaches in prisons, makes hospital visits, and serves with his father’s ministry in the Philippines. He also plays football. Pam’s son is Tim Tebow.”

    Focus on the Family made this ad that played during the big game last night:

    John 3:16 ["For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."]

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