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    Monday, May 21st, 2012 9:16 pm

    “The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage.” Thucydides

    “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” Epictetus

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    "Have I now become your enemy by telling you the truth?"
    Galatians 4:16
  • Let It Go and Trust in God: Comforting Bible Verses for Pain, Suffering, and Loss

    | May 16, 2012

    It is easy to trust God on a sunny day.  But when the very earth below you is shaking…  When a hurricane is threatening your very existence…  When life becomes too hard…  When the pain hurts so much that you can hardly stay inside yourself…  When your body, mind, and spirit feel completely broken…  When merely surviving is minute by minute…  When life as you knew it gets destroyed beyond all recognition…  When you feel like you are visiting the very pits of hell…  Look up.  God is there.   You are not in control.  You never were.  Let it go.  Let go of the “Why?”  Let go of the control. Let go of the fear.  Let go of your past.  Let go of your old story.  Let God be God.  Stop fighting Him. Trust and believe.  This is the time to start over.  Have faith in your Creator.  Feel gratitude and thankfulness for even the smallest lights in your life.  Focus your mind on the positive.   Create a new dream.  A new future.  Let God be in control.

    “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

    My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9

    Be merciful to me, LORD, for I am faint; O LORD, heal me, for my bones are in agony. My soul is in anguish. How long, O LORD, how long? Turn, O LORD, and deliver me; save me because of your unfailing love. I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears. My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes. Away from me, all you who do evil, for the LORD has heard my weeping. The LORD has heard my cry for mercy; the LORD accepts my prayer.” Psalm 6:2-4,6-9

    The Sovereign LORD will wipe away the tears from all faces; he will remove the disgrace of his people from all the earth. The LORD has spoken. In that day they will say, ‘Surely this is our God; we trusted in him, and he saved us. This is the LORD, we trusted in him; let us rejoice and be glad in his salvation.’” Isaiah 25:8,9

    “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28

    “And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19

    “I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.” Psalm 34:4,5

    “As you do not know the path of the wind, or how the body is formed in a mother’s womb, so you cannot understand the work of God, the Maker of all things.” Ecclesiastes 11:5

    “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart. Do not be afraid… for I am with you… declares the Lord. Jeremiah 1:5,8

    Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5,6

    “The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail. Isaiah 58:11

    “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:4-7

    “The LORD is my light and my salvation– whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life– of whom shall I be afraid? Psalm 27:1

    “Surely God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraid. The LORD, the LORD, is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. Isaiah 12:2

    “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

    “Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west. Isaiah 43:5

    “In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid.” Psalm 56:3,4

    “When you lie down, you will not be afraid, you will both lie down and sleep… For the Lord will be your confidence. Proverbs 3:24, 26

    “You came near when I called you, and you said, ‘Do not fear.’” Lamentations 3:57

    Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall.” Psalm 55:22

    “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

    I can do everything through him who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

    “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.Ephesians 6:10

    Being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father.” Colossians 1:11

    He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.Isaiah 40:29-31

    “But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen and protect you from the evil one. We have confidence in the Lord that you are doing and will continue to do the things we command. May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.” 2 Thessalonians 3:3-5

    “Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD. Psalm 27:14

    “You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.” Hebrews 10:36

    “Answer me when I call to you, O my righteous God. Give me relief from my distress; be merciful to me and hear my prayer. Psalm 4:1

    “The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.”Romans 8:16-18

    “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.” John 10:27-29

    The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
    Psalm 34:18

    “When calamity comes, the wicked are brought down, but even in death the righteous seek refuge in God.”
    Proverbs 14:32

    “Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead.”
    2 Corinthians 1:9

    “Since the children have flesh and blood, he too shared in their humanity so that by his death he might break the power of him who holds the power of death—that is, the devil— and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death.” Hebrews 2:14-15

    “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.”
    2 Corinthians 1:3-5

    “‘Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.’”
    John 14:1-4

    “Then I saw ‘a new heaven and a new earth,’ for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, ‘Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.’”
    Revelation 21:1-4

    | March 14, 2012

    “All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28
    “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 3:5,6
    “You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.” Hebrews 10:36

    Canadian Judge Ruled Anti-Depressant Led to Murder

    | December 18, 2011

    ‘Prozac defence’ stands in Manitoba teen’s murder case
    http://news.nationalpost.com/2011/12/07/prozac-defence-stands-in-manitoba-teens-murder-case/

    Utopia

    | July 31, 2011

    “Utopianism is terribly cruel because it expects the impossible from people. These expectations are not based on reality. They stand in opposition to the genuine human possibilities afforded by the realism of the Scripture. Utopianism can cause harm. In the home, in the man-woman relationship, nothing is more cruel than for the wife or husband to build up a false image in his or her mind and then demand that the husband or wife measure up to this false romanticism. Nothing smashes homes more than this. Such behavior is totally contrary to the Bible’s doctrine of sin. Even after redemption we are not perfect in this life. Utopianism is also harmful in the parent-child relationship. When a parent demands more from his child than the child is capable of giving, the parent destroys him as well as alienates him. If we demand, in any of our relationships, either perfection or nothing, we will get nothing.” Francis Schaeffer, No Little People

    Thanks for the reminder, thatmom.

    utopia
    1: an imaginary and indefinitely remote place
    2: often capitalized – a place of ideal perfection especially in laws, government, and social conditions
    3: an impractical scheme for social improvement

    I can see so many examples of “false romanticism” that cause unnecessary conflict. Concentrating on how things “should” be can cause great pain. Making oneself sick trying to change reality is futile.

    God grant me the serenity
    to accept the things I cannot change;
    courage to change the things I can;
    and wisdom to know the difference.

    Living one day at a time;
    Enjoying one moment at a time;
    Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
    Taking, as He did, this sinful world
    as it is, not as I would have it;
    Trusting that He will make all things right
    if I surrender to His Will;

    That I may be reasonably happy in this life
    and supremely happy with Him
    Forever in the next.
    Amen.

    ~ Reinhold Niebuhr

    “And the people bowed and prayed to the neon god they made”

    | June 9, 2011

    Simon & Garfunkel – Sound Of Silence

    Hat Tip: Dana

    The Sound Of Silence ~ Simon and Garfunkel
    Hello darkness, my old friend
    I’ve come to talk with you again
    Because a vision softly creeping
    Left its seeds while I was sleeping
    And the vision that was planted in my brain
    Still remains
    Within the sound of silence

    In restless dreams I walked alone
    Narrow streets of cobblestone
    ‘Neath the halo of a street lamp
    I turned my collar to the cold and damp
    When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light
    That split the night
    And touched the sound of silence

    And in the naked light I saw
    Ten thousand people, maybe more
    People talking without speaking
    People hearing without listening
    People writing songs that voices never share
    And no one dared
    Disturb the sound of silence

    “Fools”, said I, “You do not know
    Silence like a cancer grows
    Hear my words that I might teach you
    Take my arms that I might reach you”
    But my words, like silent raindrops fell
    And echoed
    In the wells of silence

    And the people bowed and prayed
    To the neon god they made
    And the sign flashed out its warning
    In the words that it was forming
    And the sign said, “The words of the prophets are written on the subway walls
    And tenement halls”
    And whispered in the sounds of silence

    So Tired

    | February 12, 2011

    “Great things are wanted to be done.” John Adams

    Don’t Even Try to be Productive
    http://www.steadymom.com/2011/02/dont-even-try-to-be-productive.html

    Hat Tip: DogwoodMama

    Priorities

    | February 10, 2011

    Not now, Darling, Mummy’s Tweeting: As today’s mothers spend hours on the internet, what’s the toll on their neglected children?
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1355346/Twitter-mothers-spend-hours-blogging-neglect-children.html#ixzz1DcQdSUSG

    “But there has to be a limit, and, like so many others, I’m exceeding mine by so far that I’m pretty much addicted.”

    “And this concerns me deeply. Where are our ‘little darlings’ while we are online?”

    “Are they growing up seeing more of the back of Mummy’s head than her face, while she taps away on Twitter? Is this the new ­middle class neglect? And how is this affecting our children?…”

    “But for a child, it’s quite different for mum to be ignoring them because she’s chatting with ­people who are in the room, or while she’s doing the washing up, than for her to be turning her back on her child and tapping on a ­keypad, or texting…”

    Link Between Excessive Internet Use And Depression
    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/178042.php

    20 things I learned in a week without my computer
    http://www.conversiondiary.com/2011/02/20-things-i-learned-in-a-week-without-my-computer.html

    “Mom, when you feel happy and sing and dance around the house, we all feel like we are on top of the world.”

    | January 24, 2011

    It’s Monday–be kind to yourself today!
    http://www.itakejoy.com/its-monday-be-kind-to-yourself-today/

    “‘Mom, when you feel happy and sing and dance around the house, we all feel like we are on top of the world,’ said Joel.”

    “Be happy, give your burdens to God. Everyone will be the better for your day. And so I am planning for a grace-filled day, because I know there are lots of demanding days ahead and I am pacing myself–with my heart aimed at joy.”

    I know what that feels like. But some days it is hard to get there.

    “I Guess That’s Why They Call It The Blues”

    | November 8, 2010

    Elton John – I Guess That’s Why They Call It The Blues

    Don’t wish it away
    Don’t look at it like it’s forever
    Between you and me
    I could honestly say
    That things can only get better

    And while I’m away
    Dust out the demons inside
    And it won’t be long
    Before you and me run
    To the place in our hearts
    Where we hide

    And I guess that’s why
    They call it the blues
    Time on my hands
    Could be time spent with you
    Laughing like children
    Living like lovers
    Rolling like thunder under the covers
    And I guess that’s why
    They call it the blues

    Just stare into space
    Picture my face in your hands
    Live for each second
    Without hesitation
    And never forget I’m your man

    Without me girl
    Cry in the night if it helps
    But more than ever I simply love you
    More than I love life itself

    And I guess that’s why
    They call it the blues
    Time on my hands
    Could be time spent with you
    Laughing like children
    Living like lovers
    Rolling like thunder under the covers
    And I guess that’s why
    They call it the blues

    Wait on me girl
    Cry in the night if it helps
    But more than ever I simply love you
    More than I love life itself

    And I guess that’s why
    They call it the blues
    Time on my hands
    Could be time spent with you
    Laughing like children
    Living like lovers
    Rolling like thunder under the covers
    And I guess that’s why
    They call it the blues

    Health in the News

    | October 16, 2010

    Fever from a naturopathic perspective
    http://www.gaianaturopathic.com/resources_handouts_fever.html

    Angelina Jolie – The Mistake that Almost Killed Her
    http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2010/09/17/angelina-jolie-says-vegan-diet-nearly-killed-her.aspx

    I went vegan for six weeks, and I got more sick with every passing day. (I know that it works for others.)


    Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Babywearing

    Nearly One in 10 Americans Depressed, Study Reveals
    http://www.myfoxny.com/dpps/news/nearly-one-in-10-americans-depressed-study-dpgonc-20101001-fc_9897171

    And OLD News, but a great clip
    C S Lewis on Pain

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