PARENTING FREEDOM

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  • UNFRIENDED

    carol | November 14, 2009

    For those who feel sad when people invite you to be their Facebook friend, but then block you from their updates… UNFRIENDED…

    Un-Friending
    http://ebeth.typepad.com/reallearning/2009/11/unfriending.html

    UNFRIENDED

    UNFRIENDED

    I’ve been unwanted before it’s true
    And uninvited a time or two
    Today I’m feeling unusually blue
    I’ve been unfriended by you

    The hourly updates on your activities
    Your joys, your pain, your sensitivities
    All of the parties you have attended
    No, I’ve been unfriended

    I had twenty-nine friends, an old high school buddy,
    A couple of guys from Adult Bible Study,
    Neighbors, and cousins, a high school classmate,
    And then one morning I had sixty-eight.

    The list of your friends: 3000 and growing
    Three thousand folks who think you’re worth knowing
    You’re a popular person, you don’t need me
    You’ve got Carla and Nicholas Sarkozy

    Unfriended, where can I go?
    Back to the people I used to know.
    The women at church, the guys at the bar,
    They could try to unfriend me but I know where they are.

    I offered you friendship when I saw you online
    I thought you’d become a true friend of mine
    You posted a comment, I thought we were close
    But now I am toast.

    I feel like I’m back in my high school cafeteria
    And I get the cold shoulder and I’m sent to Siberia
    And no one will talk to me, nobody, none,
    I once was befriended but now I am Un.

    How could you do it, just delete my name?
    I’m not a left-winger, nor an old flame,
    I’m not a stalker and you’re not a star,
    But now I’ll expose you for the jerk that you are.

    You know it’s inevitable that we will meet
    In real time on an actual street
    I’ll be so cool — OMG — how sweet.
    And I’ll look away as I press delete.

    Unfriended
    Unfriended, boogers on you
    You and all the friends you knew
    Have just been unfriended too

    Internet Addiction

    carol | October 19, 2009

    20 Things I learned in my week without my computer (from Jennifer)
    http://www.conversiondiary.com/2009/10/20-things-i-learned-in-my-week-without.html

    7. “The internet tempts me to over-value my own opinions (especially micro-communication tools like Twitter and email). This week I caught myself hanging on to every single opinion I had about anything, a habit I’d formed from constantly emailing and tweeting friends with every little thought I had. When I wrote the ideas down on paper to express later by phone or in person, I realized that most of them were pretty inane, things that I would have forgotten about altogether in the days before I had an internet connection.”

    13. “Getting on my computer makes it very easy to forget what my goals for the day are. Especially because I have tendencies toward ADD, I go into ‘monkey with shiny object’ mode with all the great, interconnected information available on the internet; I all too easily get sucked in and completely forget what I was trying to accomplish in the day.”

    17. “The same force that drives people to slot machines is what drives me to my computer. I realized that when I mindlessly get online, every time I click it’s like pulling the lever on a slot machine and hoping to hit the jackpot. I’m hoping to hit a virtual jackpot — a blog post that changes my life, an email that blows me away, a hilarious video on YouTube, etc. And the truth is that there’s enough stuff online that if I clicked on enough links or spent enough time on email I would get that payoff I’m looking for. But, just like with slot machines, I need to be careful about spending endless amounts of time just sitting around pulling the lever.”

    This and That

    carol | September 1, 2008

    I sometimes wonder if what I write is of interest to others. I only link to things that interest me. I only write articles when I am inspired. I only journal about things I want to remember. I only post pictures I want to scrapbook. Did I post too many today? I do wonder what on EARTH my descendants will want with my overload of information. I may be wasting the time I should spend with my children, BUT they are happily playing, so I won’t worry.

    I used to write more chatty notes like this, but I don’t want to go on and on and say things that would harm one of my children’s future political careers. :-) Then again – these are MY opinions!

    See the far right sidebar (at the bottom) for my Facebook status updates. That is where I tend to write things like this:

    Now, I am going to start the barbecue and make supper, switch the laundry, put the clean clothes away, put the suitcases away from our trip, correct calculus, clean up the house… And hope to fit in the things I SHOULD do like… read aloud to the children, go outside with them, play something…

    It all gets done eventually… And everybody is happy most of the time.

    'Mental risk' of Facebook teens

    carol | July 3, 2008

    Children growing up alongside the rise of social networking websites may have a “potentially dangerous” view of the world, says a leading psychiatrist.
    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7487723.stm

    Monday

    carol | June 16, 2008

    • Check email (I am behind with three overdue responses – sorry)
    • Make eggs for breakfast
    • Varnish last bookcase, doors, and shelves
    • Attach four doors to two of the finished bookcases
    • Correct B9’s math
    • Write down the titles of the last several books the children read (I will be posting their complete lists when they are finished school.)
    • Make plan for B9’s summer subjects (He will be doing one review math test and one new page of music once a week during the summer. Those are the only subjects which he would forget and thus have to do a lot of backtracking in the fall.)
    • Figure out if N14 can have Calculus done by Christmas. (Only if he works over the summer, which he doesn’t seem to mind TOO much.)
    • Make muffins
    • Combine June and July calendars
    • Try to prop up the rest of our pine trees that the hard winter pretty much destroyed
    • Label last three movies on DVD
    • Check another lesson of math
    • Get laundry going
    • Tidy rooms
    • Make sure children follow through with chores
    • Read to L3 (and C6)
    • etc.