PARENTING FREEDOM

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    Monday, May 21st, 2012 9:16 pm

    “The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage.” Thucydides

    “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” Epictetus

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    "None are so hopelessly enslaved
    as those who falsely believe they are free."
    Goethe
  • Chimes of Freedom

    | May 21, 2012

    Bruce Springsteen – Chimes of Freedom sub ing esp

    Chimes Of Freedom ~ Bob Dylan

    Far between sundown’s finish an’ midnight’s broken toll
    We ducked inside the doorways, thunder went crashing
    As majestic bells of bolts struck shadows in the sounds
    Seeming to be the chimes of freedom flashing

    Flashing for the warriors whose strength is not to fight
    Flashing for the refugees on the unarmed road of flight
    And for each and every underdog soldier in the night
    And we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

    Through the city’s melted furnace, unexpectedly we watched
    With faces hidden as the walls were tightening
    As the echo of the wedding bells before the blowin’ rain
    Dissolved into the bells of the lightning

    Tolling for the rebel, tolling for the rake
    Tolling for the luckless, the abandoned and forsaken
    Tolling for the outcast burnin’ constantly at stake
    And we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

    Through the mad mystic hammering of the wild ripping hail
    The sky cracked its poems in naked wonder
    That the clinging of the church bells blew far into the breeze
    Leaving only bells of lightning and its thunder

    Striking for the gentle, striking for the kind
    Striking for the guardians and protectors of the mind
    And the poet and the painter far behind his rightful time
    And we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

    In the wild cathedral evening the rain unraveled tales
    For the disrobed faceless forms of no position
    Tolling for the tongues with no place to bring their thoughts
    All down in taken for granted situations

    Tolling for the deaf and blind, tolling for the mute
    For the mistreated, mateless mother, the mistitled prostitute
    For the misdemeanor outlaw chained and cheated by pursuit
    And we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

    Even though a cloud’s white curtain in a far-off corner flashed
    And the hypnotic splattered mist was slowly lifting
    Electric light still struck like arrows, fired but for the ones
    Condemned to drift or else be kept from drifting

    Tolling for the searching ones on their speechless seeking trail
    For the lonesome hearted lovers with too personal a tale
    And for each unharmful, gentle soul misplaced inside a jail
    And we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

    Starry-eyed and laughing, as I recall when we were caught
    Trapped by no track of hours for they hang suspended
    As we listened one last time and we watched with one last look
    Spellbound and swallowed till the tolling ended

    Tolling for the aching whose wounds cannot be nursed
    For the countless confused, accused, misused, strung-out ones and worse
    And for every hung up person in the whole wide universe
    And we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

    | May 21, 2012

    “The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage.” Thucydides

    “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” Epictetus

    | May 15, 2012

    Wow… The stories a person’s iTunes music playlist tells… When a lifetime of clues and hints and flashing lights aren’t enough, you sometimes need to hit a brick wall – or visit hell.

    “You were only waiting for this moment to be free.”

    | May 15, 2012

    Sarah McLachlan – Blackbird

    Blackbird ~ Sarah McLachlan

    Blackbird singing in the dead of night
    Take these broken wings and learn to fly
    All your life
    You were only waiting for this moment to arise.

    Blackbird singing in the dead of night
    Take these sunken eyes and learn to see
    All your life
    You were only waiting for this moment to be free.

    Blackbird fly blackbird fly
    Into the light of the dark black night.

    Blackbird fly blackbird fly
    Into the light of the dark black night.

    Blackbird singing in the dead of night
    Take these broken wings and learn to fly
    All your life
    You were only waiting for this moment to arise
    You were only waiting for this moment to arise
    You were only waiting for this moment to arise.

    “I keep holding my chains, no longer bound but here I stay”

    | May 15, 2012

    “Freedom” by Run Kid Run (with lyrics)

    Freedom ~ Run Kid Run

    Oh my chains, I can’t disengage
    I don’t believe that I want to
    One hand sings Your praise
    The other brings me shame
    I have selfishness to blame

    And I’m singing for freedom
    I know I’m not the only one praying to the One
    Who can bring me this freedom
    I’m ready for change, change, change, change

    Looking down I lay
    I keep holding my chains
    No longer bound but here I stay
    I scream, Father please, I need rescuing
    I need You and You alone

    And I’m singing for freedom
    I know I’m not the only one praying to the One
    Who can bring me this freedom
    I’m ready for, I’m ready for

    Still You patiently await
    Yet I won’t just let go
    I see You and You alone
    Say come, follow me
    Despair has come so You can’t see, release

    So I’m singing for freedom
    So I’m singing for freedom

    The time has come, separation lost the war to love
    Take my hand, grace is found, yeah where Your words begin
    You’re alive, You’re alive, in the waking of new life
    Take my hand, in the end there’s only love, there’s only love

    There’s only singing for freedom
    I know I’m not the only one praying to the One
    Who can bring me this freedom
    I’m ready for, I’m ready for
    Father please, I need rescuing
    I need You and You alone

    Forgiveness Quotes

    | April 21, 2012

    “Forgiveness doesn’t make the other person right, it makes you free.” Stormie Omartian

    “We are to forgive so that we may enjoy God’s goodness without feeling the weight of anger burning deep within our hearts. Forgiveness does not mean we recant the fact that what happened to us was wrong. Instead, we roll our burdens onto the Lord and allow Him to carry them for us.” Charles Stanley

    “The Risen Christ proclaimed not that we ‘have to forgive,’ but rather, that at last we CAN forgive–and thereby free ourselves from consuming bitterness and the offender from our binding condemnation. This process requires genuine human anger and grief, plus–and here is the awful cost of such freedom–a humble willingness to see the offender as God sees that person, in all his or her terrible brokenness and need for God’s saving power. I would never tell another, ‘You have to forgive.’ But my uncomfortable duty as a Christian is to confess the truth, so lethal to our self centred human nature: ‘Jesus, who suffered your sin unto his own death, calls you likewise to forgive, so that God’s purposes may be accomplished in both you and your offender.’” Gordon Dalbey

    “Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” Mark Twain

    “To excuse what can really produce good excuses is not Christian charity; it is only fairness. To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you. This is hard. It is perhaps not so hard to forgive a single injury. But to forgive the incessant provocations of daily life – to keep on forgiving the bossy mother-in-law, the bullying husband, the nagging wife, the selfish daughter, the deceitful son – how can we do it? Only, I think, by remembering where we stand, by meaning our words when we say in our prayers each night, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” We are offered forgiveness on no other terms. To refuse it means to refuse God’s mercy for ourselves. There is no hint of exceptions and God means what He says.” C. S. Lewis

    “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”

    Mahatma Gandhi

    “To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
    Alexander Pope

    “The glory of Christianity is to conquer by forgiveness.” William Blake

    “Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.” Louis B. Smedes

    “People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
    If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
    If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
    If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
    The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
    Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
    For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”
    Mother Teresa

    “To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.” Confucius


    (Not sure about this in light of Luke 17:3,4,
    but most of the other forgiveness verses don’t seem to be based on repentance.)

    “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.” Luke 17:3-4

    “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” Mark 11:25

    “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” Luke 6:37

    “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32

    (God does require us to repent.)

    “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” Matthew 5:44

    | April 18, 2012

    “How many years can some people exist before they’re allowed to be free…” Bob Dylan

    sola gratia

    | January 8, 2012

    Might As Well Face It, You’re Addicted To Law
    http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tullian/2012/01/05/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-law/

    “The law offends us because it tells us what to do–and we hate anyone telling us what to do, most of the time. But, ironically, grace offends us even more because it tells us that there’s nothing we can do, that everything has already been done…”

    I love the reminder that we are not in control. And you can’t control other people and make them do what you want them to do or make them believe what you think they should believe.

    I love the reminder that “It is finished.”

    “It amazes me that you will hear great concern from inside the church about ‘too much grace’ but rarely will you ever hear great concern from inside the church about ‘too many rules.’”

    And THAT certainly applies to parenting.

    Hat Tip:
    http://www.thatmom.com/

    This is a link to one of my favorite posts on this topic – not because of what I wrote, but because of the quotes.

    “The glorious freedom of the children of God.”
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/03/08/the-glorious-freedom-of-the-children-of-god/

    My Name is Carol. And I Am An Introvert. (But Do You Know What That Means?)

    | December 31, 2011

    10 Myths About Introverts
    http://www.carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts

    I started to copy the quotes that apply to me, but that ended up being everything, so just follow the link.

    A Little Housekeeping

    | December 7, 2011

    When Less Really is More
    http://www.keeperofthehome.org/2011/11/when-less-really-is-more.html

    Purging household items is very freeing. It is hard to know where to draw the line though.

    A Tour of our Family Closet (Video Blog)
    http://www.keeperofthehome.org/2010/08/a-tour-of-our-family-closet.html

    When I saw this idea on the Duggar’s show years ago, I wished I had thought of it when we designed our house. At least we have the laundry room on the main floor and a walk-in closet for the master bedroom that holds the baby’s clothes as well as ours. I knew enough to make lots of closet rods, and we rely very little on dressers. We, too, hang up EVERYTHING except socks, underwear, and swimsuits. I think my children (because they are mostly older) would still want their clothes in their own room, but a family closet would be a central place where things could remain neatly until they carried their clothes to their rooms. My ten-year-old daughter is excellent with taking care of the clean clothes. If I had a family closet, it would need a big-screen T.V.

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