PARENTING FREEDOM

attachment parenting, homeschooling, gentle discipline
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    Friday, December 21st, 2012 10:23 am

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    what they do not want to hear."
    George Orwell
  • Heads Up: See Five Planets Starting Tonight

    | March 1, 2012

    http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2012/02/120228-planets-moon-night-sky-venus-jupiter-space-science

    Homeschoolers and Equal Rights

    | February 22, 2012

    Tim Tebow Debate: Should Homeschoolers Be Allowed on Public-School Sports Teams?
    http://ideas.time.com/2012/02/16/tim-tebow-debate-should-homeschoolers-be-allowed-to-play-sports/

    | January 30, 2012

    Amazing. We went snowshoeing and had art lessons two days in a row.

    Helping With Their Imaginations

    | December 25, 2011

    The Best Toys $5 Can Buy
    http://www.hereinthelovelywoods.com/2011/12/best-toys-5-can-buy.html

    We added almost all of these things to the children’s Christmas gifts. Typically, it is a challenge to keep them supplied in tape and paper. Once they get all their Lego built, it will be interesting to see what messes creations they will make with the crafty stuff.

    | December 5, 2011

    I think two of the biggest shames of schooling-outside-the-home are the separation of siblings and the extreme reduction of playtime.

    Christmas Preparations 2011

    | November 30, 2011

    This year, we started decorating for Christmas earlier than ever (not last weekend, but the weekend before). Even though we don’t decorate that much, I knew it would take a while to get it done. I still don’t have the garland on the stair railing. As you can imagine, C1 was pretty excited with all the “new” things all over the living room. Usually we listen to Christmas music or watch a Christmas movie while decorating, but who can miss “Cheaper By the Dozen” when it is on TV?

    C1 concentrating on adding the lights to the ceramic tree

    L7 and C10 setting up the manger

    C1 examining the Baby Jesus

    C1 looking at the Jesse Tree ornaments and Christmas books

    C1 enjoying the Fisher-Price nativity scene

    Baby Jesus

    Here are some old pictures and comments regarding some of our Christmas traditions.
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/04/christmas-decorating-and-family-christmas-traditions/
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2009/12/28/decorating-for-christmas-2009/

    We are on the third Jesse tree devotion as we started early in hopes that we won’t have to double up or skip as many as usual. I haven’t done it “right” since the first year we tried it, and we even skipped last year completely. So far so good this year.

    Here is our Jesse Tree from 2008:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/04/family-christmas-tradition-jesse-tree/

    Here are a couple links to free Jesse Tree Devotions:
    http://www.aholyexperience.com/2010/11/free-jesse-tree-advent-devotional-book/
    http://www.scribd.com/doc/73429505/Jesse-Tree-Guide

    Although there is no problem fitting in the treat from the advent calendar house, we started that early, too, just because we were so excited. Beforehand, I had the kids sign a contract – no fighting, no jealousy, no complaining, etc. Greed, selfishness, and lack of appreciation can get out of hand if you aren’t prepared.

    The kids guessed ahead of time that the theme this year was Lego, and although there are two different Lego advent calendars available this year, I decided to buy the Lego figures/items of my choosing. The doors of our advent house are so small that hardly anything fits in, never mind enough things for FOUR children, so I put only C1′s treat behind the door. (I only fill one day at a time for her, because I would never tempt a one-year-old by filling all the little boxes and expecting her to not open them all, especially since I want to keep it at her level.) C1 doesn’t get Lego, but she does get something special behind each door each day. I hide the Lego baggies for the three older kids in three different rooms, so they can hunt like crazy and will only find their own treat. I was very tricky the first day and C10 and B13 had a very hard time finding their Lego. So much so, that I had to play “Hot” or “Cold” with one of them.

    Here is our advent calendar house from last year:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/12/31/christmas-2010-adventures-with-our-first-advent-calendar-house/

    Cara gave me a link to Cinnamon Bear audio stories recorded in 1937! That was when Grampie S. was only six years old! We’ve been listening to the stories during lunch and clean-up and have finished four already. It keeps C10 in the kitchen to clean out the dishwasher, too. She is the biggest fan of audio books although L7 seems to like them, too. C10 thought the children in the stories had whiny voices, but she agreed when I pointed out that the little girl sounded like Shirley Temple.

    Here are the Cinnamon Bear audio stories (24 Counting Down to Christmas):
    http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2011/11/28/the-cinnamon-bear-an-old-time-radio-christmas-tradition-4/

    I bought the Michael Bublé Christmas album on iTunes, and although it is nice, I realize I much prefer to listen to conservative talk radio.

    I remembered to buy the pre-built gingerbread house this year! Maybe I will buy some more candy decorations at the Bulk Barn if I think of it. The kids could always use more gumballs!

    I added the following new things to our Christmas decorations this year: a new ribbon (although I might be sorry because the sparkles seem to fall off too much) for the tree (which we don’t put up until closer to Christmas since we always get a real one), a pink decoration for C10′s pink tree, some blue trim for L7′s blue tree, and for the five Sundays of Advent, I bought new purple and white candles, a stand and greenery. We used our white candle for our Jack’o'Lantern on Hallowe’en.

    As I mentioned before, I cut down on gifts this year. I did most of our Christmas shopping online and have purchased everything already. As a Canadian, I had my first experience with Black Friday where I got a few great deals at Amazon.ca and .com.

    That’s all folks. Anything else you want to know? Have you come across any nice Christmas ideas that you want to share with me?

    If you rarely or have never commented on my blog, I would love to hear from you. Especially any real life friends who found my website through Facebook. I love to know who reads my posts. Hundreds of people visit my websites every day, but most land here looking for articles on specific subjects. I write personal posts like this for the special people who visit here on purpose, and it’s fun to know who you are! I hope you are enjoying your Christmas preparations, too!

    Edited to add:

    I started our annual reading aloud of “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” tonight.

    I am thinking I will get a puzzle with about 1000 pieces for the children to work on during the next few weeks.

    She Baked A Cake

    | November 10, 2011

    My ten-year-old daughter just did something I have never done in 41 years. She made homemade icing! Well, I did try one time to make boiled icing, but my mother had to rescue me after two failed pots. C10 made a cookies and cream cake with Oreos. We are waiting for it to cool. I would have taken pictures, but the kitchen is too messy from the supper dishes not done. Contrary to the stereotype, I am NOT one of those homeschooling mothers who teaches her daughter to cook (tonight was rare), nor am I the cook-from-scratch type, and I certainly can’t take step-by-step pictures to record the experience.

    Homeschooling Video Games 101

    | November 1, 2011

    Homeschooling rocks for a 13 year-old boy who finished the 3 R’s mid-morning, and then we went to town to pick up his LONG-AWAITED Uncharted 3 PS3 video game. B13 got to spend the rest of the day (and evening) playing his new video game. He has lots of empty Halloween candy wrappers around him. Also, the Littles are now watching CARS 2 out on DVD/Blu-ray (ignoring the environmentalist propanda). L7 is wearing his CARS 2 shirt. Tomorrow will hold more schoolwork.

    I have so many things I could be doing right now. I guess clicking Publish, correcting Math, switching laundry, and folding some clothes are next (and probably a little nursing session and watching CARS 2.) Multi-tasking.

    (Update: Did all those chores and more…)

    Winter in Canada

    | February 22, 2011

    I took these video clips of my children this afternoon.

    Sliding in the yard

    Igloo in the yard

    Why Lego 101 Is Our Most Important Subject

    | February 15, 2011

    Killing the soul of children
    http://www.itakejoy.com/killing-the-soul-of-children/

    “Research of every kind has suggested that media, constantly being indoors, over-entertainment, trying to manage children into little adults, too much exposure to sexual material and immoral values at an early age, is destroying the soul of children…”

    “Children need lots of time to have alone time imagination–to synthesize all that they are learning and thinking about in their worlds…”

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