PARENTING FREEDOM

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    Monday, May 21st, 2012 9:16 pm

    “The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage.” Thucydides

    “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” Epictetus

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    "So in everything,
    do to others what you would have them do to you."
    Matthew 7:12
  • Time for the Kids

    | February 6, 2011

    The guilt trap: How over half of mothers feel they don’t spend enough quality time with their children
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1351011/The-guilt-trap-How-half-mothers-feel-dont-spend-quality-time-children.html#ixzz1DCPDbLQn

    “Just over 50 per cent of mothers struggle to find quality time to amuse the children due to busy lives and hectic work schedules.”

    “The majority admitted that they could do better at a string of other everyday parental tasks too, blaming themselves for a lack of patience and not cooking more meals from scratch.”

    Who cares about cooking from scratch? That can easily be a waste of time.

    “24 per cent believe they should be putting more effort into helping children with their schoolwork.”

    Uh, what are they paying the teachers to do?

    “Three quarters of the mothers polled said that they often leave the children to entertain themselves [children] so they can get a bit of work or chores done.”

    Sounds like one quarter are lying.

    Say good night to bedtime stories: How reading to children is being hit by busy lives
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1352045/Say-good-night-bedtime-stories-How-reading-children-hit-busy-lives.html#ixzz1DCYNTWPr

    Since my husband started working away, I noticed a drastic drop in my reading to the children. It’s a shame, but it’s the way it’s been.

    A Regular Walk in a Winter Wonderland

    | December 31, 2010


    The children, Nana, and me


    Beautiful Scenery


    The pictures don’t do it justice.


    Baby GC sleeping in the sling in the crisp air

    Christmas 2010: Adventures with our First Advent Calendar House

    | December 31, 2010

    I miss personal blogging. I miss the old way I used to blog. I am so behind that it almost seems hopeless. I stopped posting regular family pictures around July and never picked it up again. I haven’t even written Baby GC’s birth story. I want to get back into it, so for now, I think I will skip the summer and fall and only go back as far as the beginning of Advent 2010.

    We had a very slow, low-key month of December. I made the choice not to do many of our annual traditions. I wanted peace without commotion. I was tired of feeling tired, so we did very little. It still felt very much like Christmas.

    One new idea that proved to be quite fun was our new Advent calendar house. After Christmas last year, I ordered it on EBay. It sat in its box all year, so it was rather amusing when we opened it. Do you notice anything unusual about it? I didn’t until the children mentioned it.


    Our Advent Calendar House

    I bought some secret things. (The treats were often things we would do anyway, or candy from the Bulk Barn, or things we could have saved for Christmas presents. I had lots of ideas we didn’t even use.)

    And I made a list of hiding places. (Examples: Look in the organ… Look in the drawer under the sock monkey… Look in the doll house… Look by the doll on the stairs… Look behind the ceramic Christmas tree… Look in the front bench… Look in the fridge… Look by the Cascade… Look on the computer desk… Look in the bathtub… Look in the black cabinet in the bathroom… Look on the dryer…)

    Each day of December, I would either stuff a small treat or a “Look under/in/behind” note behind one of the doors. Instead of getting it ready all at once, I would do it one day at a time, so the most appropriate treat would go on the most convenient day.

    Day 1: pack of crackling candy to share (funny)

    Day 2: four lollipops and four Double Bubble gum (to divide among four children)

    Day 3: four chocolate loonies

    Day 4: Decorated wooden Christmas tree ornament crafts with marker and glitter

    Day 5: Made T.V. advertisments with video camera – Sham Wow, Goldline

    This was fun. We spent additional time watching home videos. (It makes me feel bad that I didn’t take more during the past few years. I have hardly ANY of Baby GC, but I guess it doesn’t matter.)

    Day 6: bag of peanut M&Ms to share

    Day 7: four chocolate peanut butter balls and four mints

    Day 8: four mints and four rockets

    Day 9: four pieces Hubba Bubba gum

    Day 10: chocolate rocks (It took them a while to figure out you could eat them. It looked like a bag of real stones.)

    Day 11: Ice Cream Moon Sand

    The three middles really enjoyed this project.


    Playing Moon Sand
    See Baby and cat and lights?
    I was getting ready to put the lights on the real tree.

    Day 12: Decorated Gingerbread houses with Daddy

    Derek is always responsible for the construction of the gingerbread houses.


    Our Gingerbread Houses 2010

    Day 13: Gum that tastes like SOAP. I can’t let them get TOO spoiled. It was hilarious, but they were mad and thought it was a dud. ROFLOL After, I told them if they had reacted like good sports, they would have got something else, but… FAIL… ?! (To clarify, for the biblically minded, it was a joke, not a character test… and they read the label before they tried it.)

    Day 14: foam sticker wreath craft with glitter glue, one KitKat to share


    Christmas wreath foam craft

    Day 15: watched Ramona and Beezus on PayPerVu

    I knew C9 would like this especially. I think she has read all the Beverly Cleary books by now. It will be a sad day when something happens to our cat. I LOVED all the baby wearing in the movie! Even Ramona was carrying around her baby sister in a forward facing carrier.

    Day 16: four candy canes

    Day 17: four lollipops and four Double Bubble gum

    Day 18: Three oldest went to Voyage of the Dawn Treader in 3D with Daddy… L6 watched Cats and Dogs 2 on PayPerVu

    I didn’t want to take Baby GC to Voyage of the Dawn Treader because it was only available in 3D. There is nothing worse than a seeing a 3D movie without the glasses, and I knew I wouldn’t be able to keep them on the baby, and she LOVES to watch the big screen, so I chose to skip the movie.

    Day 19: The middles painted plaster tree ornaments with me, Derek, and his brother who happened to stop by.


    Painting Christmas Tree Ornaments


    Decorating chocolate cupcakes with icing
    and Christmas sprinkles (with Derek’s brother)

    Day 20: I forget what it was.

    Day 21: two Kit Kats and two O’Henrys

    Day 22: four pieces of Hubba Bubba gum

    Day 23: four kinds of juice cans

    Day 24: made things out of clay


    Making things out of clay on Christmas Eve


    Some of our clay creations

    We had a nice, relaxing Christmas Eve.

    Day 25: four mints

    Nice Coloring Projects

    | December 1, 2010

    Paper Toys
    http://papertoys.com/

    C9 and L6 are enjoying making some of these paper toys. They made several nativity scenes for gifts and also cars for Daddy.

    Inspiring Posts to Encourage Creativity

    | August 16, 2010

    The Joy of Watercolors
    http://ponderedinmyheart.typepad.com/pondered_in_my_heart/2010/06/watercolor-year.html

    We have all the watercolor supplies and recommended DVD ready to go.

    Mila’s Daydreams
    http://milasdaydreams.blogspot.com/

    We bought some new colored blankets and are planning to do this during the next few months. :-) This is the hat tip for the idea, but I hope I will be creative in coming up with my own baby landscapes. (Most pictures will likely be for registered readers.)

    Water Ballet
    http://www.elizabethesther.com/threes_a_crowd/2010/08/water-ballet.html

    And pretty much every post by http://www.kellehampton.com/

    In Remembrance of the Wonderful Headmistress of our Local Christian School

    | June 29, 2010

    Mrs. M. was most definitely greeted by our Lord with,

    “Well done, thou good and faithful servant.”
    Matthew 25:21

    We knew Mrs. M. and her family since my parents first began homeschooling my sister in the early eighties. She was a professional teacher who homeschooled her own three children, and then she began to educate other children who needed her until she had a full-fledged private Christian school. When running her school, she continued to be very supportive of homeschoolers and even offered her school for art/music/sports, etc. every Friday. My children and I visited there on Fridays for almost three years. We have many memories of those years.

    Mrs. M.’s school was home to a variety of children from various circumstances and backgrounds. There were Christian children, doctors’ children, poor children, children too smart for the system, challenged children, previously bullied children, children given up on by the public schools, etc. There were even children of other religions (like Muslim) whose parents wanted something better for their children than the public school system. Mrs. M. was a loving servant to each one.

    “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.”
    Matthew 25:40

    When I think of how Mrs. M. loved, helped, and encouraged the many children who went to her school over the years, she reminds me of Lady Liberty.

    “Give me your tired, your poor,
    Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
    The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
    Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
    I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”

    Emma Lazarus (1849-1887)

    And this was the way it was at Mrs. M.’s school,

    “Even the people that you reject can make it here.”
    Glenn Beck

    Mrs. M. passed away at the age of 63. She has three grown children (late 20′s, early 30′s) and a little grandson. Their father also died just a few years ago. May God bless them.

    Spring Pictures

    | May 11, 2010

    Here are some of our spring pictures that I am willing to share publicly. Go here for the private pictures: http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/05/11/spring-pictures/ (Send me information about yourself if you want access.)


    First backyard soccer of the season – April 6, 2010
    B11, L5, C8


    C8 enjoys listening to audio books on her MP3 player
    April 12, 2010


    Inspired by a library book


    Paint – April 23, 2010


    Brushes


    Backyard soccer with Daddy
    April 25, 2010

    We got our trampoline last year, and I am surprised that it continues to be greatly enjoyed by all of them – especially when they use nerf swords and have jumping battles.


    The day the trampoline was put together again
    May 1, 2010


    Father and Daughter
    May 2, 2010


    Derek and the children at the beach


    Note the American Girl doll in the doll back carrier
    with foam rollers in her hair while her mother plays soccer.
    May 8, 2010


    Fiddlehead picking on Saturday (Not so pretty, eh?)

    Beautiful and Terrible Music + Lego

    | April 28, 2010

    I thought this was great:

    Lopez Tonight: William Shatner & Lin Yu Chun Duet (4/21/2010)
    http://www.tbs.com/video/index.jsp?oid=215657&eref=sharethisUrl

    And the kids enjoyed these:

    Lego Man Prank Call

    lego indiana jones

    Spring and Easter Pictures

    | April 3, 2010


    Doing the Easter story


    Easter craft


    Sign of spring: fly swatting sport


    Spring flowers (We actually found the first two dandelions yesterday.)


    Yum!


    L5′s masterpieces


    Candy sprinkles


    More Easter cookies


    Sprinkles on the floor


    Twitterpated doves


    C8


    La di da!


    The mess


    Falls

    Click here for private pictures:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2010/04/03/spring-and-easter-pictures/

    Decorating for Christmas 2009

    | December 28, 2009


    C8 and L5 decorating the little ceramic tree from Grammy G.


    The Fisher-Price Nativity Scene


    Our Teddy Bear Christmas Tree


    This year, I surprised the children with their own trees for their rooms.
    The pink is for C8 of course.


    B11 and L5 have the blue one in their room.
    The little trees add a new tradition.

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