PARENTING FREEDOM

attachment parenting, homeschooling, gentle discipline
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    Thursday, February 2nd, 2012 7:18 pm

    I bought two boxes of size 6 Huggies on clearance today, saving me $54.22 off the regular price!!! That doesn’t happen every day! The diaper company changed the packaging, and the grocery store wanted to get rid of the old style! I wish I could have bought more, but there were only two boxes left.

  • .: Quotes :.

    “I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot
    do everything, but still I can do something.
    I will not refuse to do the something I can do.”
    Helen Keller
  • “Why would I want to let a teacher have all that fun?”

    | January 30, 2012

    Why Urban, Educated Parents Are Turning to DIY Education
    http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2012/01/29/why-urban-educated-parents-are-turning-to-diy-education.html

    “Children of secular, highly educated professionals who always figured they’d send their kids to school—until they came to think, Hey, maybe we could do better… The parents that I meet aren’t afraid to talk about it. They’re doing this proudly… Once we had a child and I realized how fun it was to see her discover stuff about the world, I thought, why would I want to let a teacher have all that fun?”

    Debunking Homeschooling Myths :-D

    | January 17, 2012

    FUNNY video! “Please take me with you!!”

    Been homeschooling since 1997 – don’t knock it until you’ve tried it! FREEDOM!!

    Messy Mondays: Seven Lies about Homeschoolers

    Homeschooling Success

    | December 25, 2011

    Homeschool: Propaganda Vs. Reality (Shattering the myths)

    Twelve Days of Christmas: Homeschooling and Big Families

    | December 18, 2011

    Twelve Days of Homeschool

    And an oldie, but a goodie:
    The Twelve Days of a Large Family Christmas

    Hat Tip: http://mommylife.net/

    11:11:11 on 11/11/11

    | November 11, 2011

    Holiday on the calendar means school in this house… Do people even know what our war heroes fought against? Do they recognize the things that we used to be against, but now we accept or even embrace?

    Of Course Public Schooling Is a Socialist Idea

    | November 8, 2011

    Ron Paul: Elizabeth Warren is ‘a Socialist,‘ Public Schooling is ’a Socialist Idea’
    http://www.theblaze.com/stories/ron-paul-elizabeth-warren-is-a-socialist-public-schooling-is-a-socialist-idea/

    “When asked about Warren’s comments on public education and whether public schooling is socialism, Rep. Paul said ‘In a way. When the state runs things, that is you know, a socialist idea, that it should be collective. I preach homeschooling and private schooling and competition in school.’”

    Sibling Connection

    | September 23, 2011

    It crossed my mind this morning that the children could all be away at school and only C1 would be home all day – with no buddies. I mentioned the scenario to L7, and he did a seven-year-old roll on the floor and was not impressed with the thought. Something so strange and shocking to us is the norm to most other families. If you think about it honestly, which is really more NORMAL?! It has been hard enough on the kids to have the oldest brother go to university, but this sibling separation was supposed to start at age five? I think NOT.

    Another Study Shows Homeschooling is Academically Superior

    | September 13, 2011

    Homeschooling gives students an ‘academic edge’: ‘non-partisan’ study
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/homeschooling-gives-students-an-academic-edge-reveals-non-partisan-study

    “Homeschooling — as long as it’s structured or follows a curriculum — can provide kids with an academic edge, according to a new study from Concordia University and Mount Allison University.”

    “‘Structured homeschooling may offer opportunities for academic performance beyond those typically experienced in public schools,’ says lead author Sandra Martin-Chang, a professor in the Concordia Department of Education.”

    “Though numerous studies have shown the benefits of homeschooling, Martin-Chang claimed that theirs was one of the first “nonpartisan” studies to investigate home education versus public schooling.”

    “Published in the Canadian Journal of Behavioural Science, the authors compared 74 children living in Nova Scotia and New Brunswick: 37 who were homeschooled versus 37 who attended public schools. Participants were between 5 and 10 years old and each child was asked to complete standardized tests, under supervision of the research team, to assess their reading, writing, arithmetic skills, etc.”

    “‘Although public school children we assessed were performing at or above expected levels for their ages, children who received structured homeschooling had superior test results compared to their peers: From a half-grade advantage in math to 2.2 grade levels in reading,’ says Martin-Chang. ‘This advantage may be explained by several factors including smaller class sizes, more individualized instruction, or more academic time spent on core subjects such as reading and writing.’”

    “The research team also questioned mothers in both samples about their marital status, number of children, employment, education and household income. The findings suggest that the benefits associated with structured homeschooling could not be explained by differences in yearly family income or maternal education.”

    “The study included a subgroup of 12 homeschooled children taught in an unstructured manner. Otherwise known as unschooling, such education is free of teachers, textbooks and formal assessment.”

    “‘Compared with structured homeschooled group, children in the unstructured group had lower scores on all seven academic measures,’ says Martin-Chang. ‘Differences between the two groups were pronounced, ranging from one to four grade levels in certain tests.’”

    “J. Michael Smith, president of the Home School Legal Defense Association, told LifeSiteNews that the study ‘demonstrates that when parents are given the opportunity and freedom to educate their children, those students excel. The evidence is clear.’”

    “Despite its documented advantages, numerous jurisdictions in the U.S. and Europe have moved to curtail homeschoolers’ freedoms. Families in Sweden and Germany have been forced to leave the country, and in perhaps the most high-profile case, Dominic Johansson was taken away from his parents and only allowed to see them for one hour every five weeks.”

    “‘This newest study from Canada confirms what we know from numerous studies before – that homeschoolers negate any skepticism by succeeding academically,’ said Smith. ‘They outperform those in public school in every area of study. Teachers know that smaller class sizes and more individualized education methods work best. This is where homeschooling excels.’”

    “Approximately one percent of children in Canada are homeschooled. A study published earlier this year estimated that over 2 million children are homeschooled in the U.S.”

    “As a result of the homeschooling movement’s explosive growth and homeschoolers’ documented academic success, post-secondary institutions are increasingly targeting them, with some even appointing “homeschool liaison and recruitment specialists” to serve incoming freshmen and their families.”

    “You represent everything that our culture hates.”

    | August 7, 2011

    Motherhood Is a Calling (And Where Your Children Rank)
    http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/motherhood-is-a-calling-and-where-your-children-rank

    “Everywhere you go, people want to talk about your children. Why you shouldn’t have had them, how you could have prevented them, and why they would never do what you have done. They want to make sure you know that you won’t be smiling anymore when they are teenagers. All this at the grocery store, in line, while your children listen…”

    “Christian mothers carry their children in hostile territory. When you are in public with them, you are standing with, and defending, the objects of cultural dislike. You are publicly testifying that you value what God values, and that you refuse to value what the world values. You stand with the defenseless and in front of the needy. You represent everything that our culture hates, because you represent laying down your life for another—and laying down your life for another represents the gospel.”

    You have a choice! HOMESCHOOL!

    | August 3, 2011

    I LOVE THIS!!!!!!! You have a choice!! Let your kids stay home this September! We’ve been doing it for thirteen years, and will continue until the Baby graduates. Homeschooling ROCKS!!

    No Agenda Homeschool – The Runaway Train

    Attachment Parenting Science

    | July 20, 2011

    ‘Big Bang Theory’ actress Mayim Bialik a real-life scientist
    http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/07/15/mayim.bialik.big.bang.theory/

    “Her research on these hormones, which are critical to the mother-child bond, helped her understand biological mechanisms involved in parenting.”

    “For instance, while some mothers complain about having to breastfeed their infants about every two hours all night, Bialik appreciates a deeper significance. The hormones that make a mom feel closer to her child get refreshed during breastfeeding. So if babies want milk every two hours, that guarantees a frequent rush of hormones that bond mother and child.”

    “Breastfeeding, sleeping close to your baby and keeping him or her close to you as much as you can are all part of the natural human process, she says. Bialik is also an advocate of “gentle discipline,” or not using physical force against children.”

    “‘We’re starting to see more and more research substantiating that children hurt when you hurt them,’ she said…”

    “For their two sons — “an almost-6-year-old and an almost-3-year-old” — she and her husband don’t use nannies, babysitters or daycare, and don’t even rely on family members to look after their children…”

    “The flexibility of the schedule of homeschooling, and the opportunity to spend time with their children for most of their day, appeal to Bialik and her husband…”

    Close to 80% of Atlanta schools cheated on testing

    | July 6, 2011

    80% of Atlanta schools cheated on testing, investigators find
    http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2015517939_atlantaschools06.html

    “The investigation states that 178 teachers and principals in the Atlanta Public Schools System were involved in cheating.”

    Probe Finds Widespread Cheating in Atlanta Schools
    http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/07/05/probe-finds-widespread-cheating-in-atlanta-schools/

    “Educators at nearly four dozen Atlanta elementary and middle schools cheated on standardized tests by either helping students or changing the answers once exams were handed in.”

    48 schools! 178 teachers and principals cheated?!! Teaches and principals with such character. What an example to the children. That’s how to get more money for your school. Cheat.

    But every teacher from every single other school would never do that. Nope. Of course not. Never. Keep right on trusting the teachers.

    Edited to add:

    Investigation into APS cheating finds unethical behavior across every level
    http://www.ajc.com/news/investigation-into-aps-cheating-1001375.html

    “Teachers and principals erased and corrected mistakes on students’ answer sheets…”

    “At Gideons Elementary, teachers sneaked tests off campus and held a weekend “changing party” at a teacher’s home in Douglas County to fix answers…”

    “At Kennedy Middle, children who couldn’t read not only passed the state reading test, but scored at the highest level possible. At Perkerson Elementary, a student sat under a desk, then randomly filled in answers and still passed.”

    “At East Lake Elementary, the principal and testing coordinator instructed teachers to arrange students’ seats so that the lower-performing children would receive easier versions of the Fifth Grade Writing Tests.”

    Forced Daycare in Canada

    | June 25, 2011

    Alert: Homeschooling Children Ordered to Attend School
    http://hosted.verticalresponse.com/902461/d052e7a6f8/8091/22c47380da/

    “A Quebec family has been ordered by the court to stop homeschooling and place their children (ages 7 and 9) in the local public school. Even more concerning, they have been ordered to place their younger children (ages 3 and 5), who are not yet of compulsory school age, into daycare.”

    Quebec parents ordered to “socialize” kids speak out
    http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/sunnews/canada/archives/2011/05/20110512-084805.html

    Teachers Indoctrinating Children

    | June 6, 2011

    How American children are taught to hate Humanity

    Hat Tip: http://www.smalldeadanimals.com/archives/016971.html

    “There are armies of teachers who are taking advantage of their role in the classroom to indoctrinate your children and your grandchildren. Some of you are parents of those children who have come home to you and you don’t recognize them…” Ann McElhinney

    Highly recommend Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld.

    Thankfully, I have not been replaced by teachers or peers in my children’s lives yet.

    Why Lego 101 Is Our Most Important Subject

    | February 15, 2011

    Killing the soul of children
    http://www.itakejoy.com/killing-the-soul-of-children/

    “Research of every kind has suggested that media, constantly being indoors, over-entertainment, trying to manage children into little adults, too much exposure to sexual material and immoral values at an early age, is destroying the soul of children…”

    “Children need lots of time to have alone time imagination–to synthesize all that they are learning and thinking about in their worlds…”