PARENTING FREEDOM

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  • Sufficient Grace

    carol | March 10, 2010

    “Believer, you are not exempt from trials, but you have sufficient grace for any trouble. God’s choicest love letters are sent in black-edged envelopes. The envelope frightens us, but if we know how to break the seal we will find riches for our soul. Great trials are the clouds from which God showers great mercies. Frequently, when the Lord has an extraordinary mercy to send, He employs His rough and grizzled horses to drag it to our door. The smooth rivers of ease are usually navigated by little vessels filled with common commodities, but a huge ship loaded with treasure crosses deep seas.” Charles Spurgeon

    Thanks for the quote, thatmom!
    http://www.thatmom.com/

    “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9

    Sarah Palin’s Speech at the Tea Party Convention

    carol | February 7, 2010

    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Quotes

    carol | January 18, 2010

    “If you lose hope, somehow you lose the vitality that keeps life moving, you lose that courage to be, that quality that helps you go on in spite of it all. And so today I still have a dream.”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “The hottest place in Hell is reserved for those who remain neutral in times of great moral conflict.”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “Now there is a final reason I think that Jesus says, “Love your enemies.” It is this: that love has within it a redemptive power. And there is a power there that eventually transforms individuals. Just keep being friendly to that person. Just keep loving them, and they can’t stand it too long. Oh, they react in many ways in the beginning. They react with guilt feelings, and sometimes they’ll hate you a little more at that transition period, but just keep loving them. And by the power of your love they will break down under the load. That’s love, you see. It is redemptive, and this is why Jesus says love. There’s something about love that builds up and is creative. There is something about hate that tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies.”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual: Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”
    Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.”
    Martin Luther King Jr.

    http://parentingfreedom.com/2009/02/20/rev-dr-martin-luther-king-jr-against-spanking/

    It’s not about you.

    carol | December 21, 2009

    Sean Stephenson addresses a crowd about an interesting date!

    “What other people say and think about you is none of your business. It’s not even about you. It’s about them and what they’re comfortable with.” Sean Stephenson

    “Created for another world”

    carol | December 18, 2009

    “If we discover a desire within us that nothing in this world can satisfy, also we should begin to wonder if perhaps we were created for another world.”
    C. S. Lewis

    “You don’t have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.”
    C.S. Lewis

    Time, Challenges, and Tomorrow

    carol | December 8, 2009

    “You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.”
    Charles Buxton

    “We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”
    Charles R. Swindoll

    “Are you upset little friend? Have you been lying awake worrying? Well, don’t worry, I’m here. The flood waters will recede, the famine will end, the sun will shine tomorrow, and I will always be here to take care of you.”
    Charlie Brown to Snoopy

    “Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in, forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day, you shall begin it well and serenely.”
    Ralph Waldo Emerson

    “Let us dream of tomorrow where we can truly love from the soul, and know love as the ultimate truth at the heart of all creation.”
    Michael Jackson

    William Shatner’s Interview with Rush Limbaugh on Raw Nerve

    carol | December 7, 2009

    William and Rush Pt 1 of 3

    I hated school because it’s what everybody else had to do. I hated being locked up from the second grade on in a room…”

    “Eight years old is when I knew I wanted to go into radio because I’m sitting there getting ready to go to school I don’t want to go to. My mother’s fixing breakfast. She’s got the radio on. The guy on the radio’s having fun. And I know, nine or ten o’clock, he’s finished and he’s not going to some room, having to learn to paste.”

    “My childhood was spent in duress and in silent protest.”

    “Every year I wanted to be older. When I was ten, I wanted to be 20, when I was 20, I wanted to be 25… ‘Cause I knew it was going to get better. I was going to have more freedom. I was going to have more opportunity. I was going to be treated different because I was an adult. And it’s been true. Every year of my life has been better.”
    Rush Limbaugh

    William and Rush Pt 2 of 3

    William and Rush Pt 3 of 3

    “I no longer keep everything inside… Having the freedom to trust them [people] without fear that they’re going to not like you.”

    “I even quit the Boy’s Scouts and the Cub Scouts. I was a quitter. I quit everything conformist.” Rush Limbaugh

    Let It Go

    carol | December 5, 2009

    “Live not in yesterdays, look back and you may sorrow. Live precisely for today, look forward to tomorrow.”
    J. J. Hulsgen

    “Love…does not take into account a wrong suffered.”
    1 Corinthians 13:5 NASB

    “And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.”
    Mark 11:25-26

    Tim McGraw: Let It Go

    Let it Go ~ Tim McGraw
    I’ve been caught sideways out here on the crossroads
    Trying to buy back the pieces I lost of my soul
    It’s hard when the devil won’t get off your back
    It’s like carrying around the past in a hundred pound sack

    [Chorus]
    Today I’m gonna keep on walking
    I’m gonna hold my head up high
    I’m gonna leave it all behind
    Today I’m gonna stand out in the rain
    Let it wash it all away Yeah wash it all away
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah

    Skeletons and Ghosts are hiding in the shadows
    Threatening me with all the things that they know
    Choices and mistakes, they all know my name
    But I’m through holding in and holding onto all that pain

    Today I’m gonna keep on walking
    I’m gonna hold my head up high
    Got No more tears to cry
    Today I’m gonna stand out in the rain
    Let it wash it all away Yeah wash it all away
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah

    And I know I know I know I know I’ve been forgiven
    I know I know I know I’m gonna start living
    Today I’m gonna keep on walking
    I’m gonna hold my head up high
    I’m gonna leave it all behind
    Today I’m gonna stand out in the rain
    Let it wash it all away Yeah wash it all away
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    Oh yeah

    LUBA let it go live canadian music
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSFqcBswcjQ

    Let it Go ~ LUBA
    Too many doubts
    Too much fear
    Too much danger
    When society constructs
    Our human nature
    Live by the rules
    Live by the laws
    Live by commandments
    Notions preconceived
    Can lead to utter madness

    [chorus]
    Let it go
    Let it go
    Let it free your body
    Let it move your soul
    We are made
    We are not born

    Learn to convert
    Learn to assert
    Learn to abandon
    Ideologies and
    Disciplines at random
    Lay down the rules
    Lay down the laws
    Lay down commandments
    Lift the sanctions
    That restrict this woman’s madness

    Uniformity
    Conventionality
    Is the fate of our existence
    Keep it safely at a distance
    Nonconformity
    Unconventionality
    Is the fate to be
    Let your hair down
    Can’t you say

    Christianity = Forgiveness … “And that’s what it’s all about!”

    carol | December 3, 2009

    “My little children, these things I write to you, so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”
    1 John 2:1

    “I think that if God forgives us we must forgive ourselves. Otherwise it is almost like setting up ourselves as a higher tribunal than Him.”
    C.S. Lewis

    Consider this Lewis quote with my little adaptation: “I think that if God forgives us we must forgive..” our children “…Otherwise it is almost like setting up ourselves as a higher tribunal than Him.”

    “God pardons like a mother, who kisses the offense into everlasting forgiveness.”
    Henry Ward Beecher

    “The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.”
    Honoré de Balzac

    “In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace.”
    Ephesians 1:7

    “You have forgiven the iniquity of Your people; You have covered all their sin.”
    Psalm 85:2

    “For You, Lord, are good, and ready to forgive, And abundant in mercy to all those who call upon You.”
    Psalm 86:5

    “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.”
    Romans 8:1

    “The LORD is merciful and gracious, Slow to anger, and abounding in mercy. He will not always strive with us, Nor will He keep His anger forever. He has not dealt with us according to our sins, Nor punished us according to our iniquities. For as the heavens are high above the earth, So great is His mercy toward those who fear Him; As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us.”
    Psalm 103:8-12

    “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.”
    Matthew 18:22

    “Then Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.’”
    Luke 23:34

    “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.”
    Colossians 3:12-13

    “We find that the work of forgiveness has to be done over and over again. We, forgive, we mortify our resentment; a week later some chain of thought carries us back to the original offense and we discover the old resentment blazing away if nothing had been done about it at all. We need to forgive our brother seventy times seven not only for 490 offenses but for one offense.”
    C.S. Lewis

    “We must forgive all our enemies or be damned.”
    C.S. Lewis

    “Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.”
    Mark Twain

    “He who is devoid of the power to forgive, is devoid of the power to love.”
    Martin Luther King, Jr.

    “Forgiveness is the remission of sins. For it is by this that what has been lost, and was found, is saved from being lost again.”
    Saint Augustine

    “I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note–torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.”
    Henry Ward Beecher

    “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.”
    Unknown

    “The glory of Christianity is to conquer by forgiveness.”
    William Blake

    “You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.”
    Lewis B. Smedes

    “Give up on being perfect”

    carol | December 3, 2009

    Give up on being perfect
    http://catholicherald.com/opinions/detail.html?sub_id=11672

    “Into each life some rain must fall”

    carol | December 1, 2009

    Into Each Life

    INTO EACH LIFE SOME RAIN MUST FALL
    Ella Fitzgerald & The Ink Spots – 1944

    Into each life some rain must fall
    But too much is falling in mine
    Into each heart some tears must fall
    But some day the sun will shine

    Some folks can lose the blues in their hearts
    But when I think of you another shower starts
    Into each life some rain must fall
    But too much is falling in mine

    SPOKEN (Ink Spots Version):
    Into each and every life some rain has got to fall
    But too much of that stuff is fallin’ into mine
    And into each heart some tears gotta fall
    And I know that someday that sun is bound to shine

    Some folks can lose the blues in their heart
    But when I think of you another shower starts
    Into each life some rain must fall
    But too much is fallin’ in mine

    You GO Girls!

    carol | November 26, 2009

    Palin Motivates Mothers to Launch Their Own Political Campaigns
    http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2009/11/25/palin-motivates-mothers-launch-political-campaigns/

    "Let It Go"

    carol | October 28, 2009

    John Lennon – Watching The Wheels

    John Lennon – Watching The Wheels

    People say I’m crazy doing what I’m doing
    Well they give me all kinds of warnings to save me from ruin
    When I say that I’m okay well they look at me kind of strange
    Surely you’re not happy now you no longer play the game

    People say I’m lazy dreaming my life away
    Well they give me all kinds of advice designed to enlighten me
    When I tell them that I’m doing fine watching shadows on the wall
    Don’t you miss the big time boy you’re no longer on the ball

    I’m just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
    I really love to watch them roll
    No longer riding on the merry-go-round
    I just had to let it go

    Ah, people asking questions lost in confusion
    Well I tell them there’s no problem, only solutions
    Well they shake their heads and they look at me as if I’ve lost my mind
    I tell them there’s no hurry
    I’m just sitting here doing time

    I’m just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
    I really love to watch them roll
    No longer riding on the merry-go-round
    I just had to let it go
    I just had to let it go
    I just had to let it go

    "The fool on the hill sees the sun going down, the world spinning 'round"

    carol | October 23, 2009

    Fool on the Hill ~ The Beatles

    Fool on the Hill ~ The Beatles

    Day after day,
    Alone on a hill,
    The man with the foolish grin is keeping perfectly still
    But nobody wants to know him,
    They can see that he’s just a fool,
    And he never gives an answer,

    But the fool on the hill,
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    Well on the way,
    Head in a cloud,
    The man of a thousand voices talking perfectly loud
    But nobody ever hears him,
    or the sound he appears to make,
    and he never seems to notice,

    But the fool on the hill,
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    And nobody seems to like him,
    they can tell what he wants to do,
    and he never shows his feelings,

    But the fool on the hill,
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh,
    Round, round, round, round.

    He never listens to them,
    He knows that they’re the fools
    They don’t like him,

    The fool on the hill
    Sees the sun going down,
    And the eyes in his head,
    See the world spinning ’round.

    Ooh,
    Round and round and round

    Rush Limbaugh: "When you're worried about what people think of you, you stop being who you are and you start tailoring yourself to everybody else so that they like you."

    carol | October 13, 2009

    How do you be consistently true to yourself and your values and opinions while being considerate of others’ feelings?

    I loved what Rush had to say in an interview yesterday. He no longer cares what people think of him. He does not give people the power to offend him…. but he continues to offend others (not me)… Is it possible to not offend and not be offended? Maybe if you are strong enough and willing to take the flak…

    LIMBAUGH: You know, I actually thank God for my addiction, because I learned more about myself in rehab than I would have ever learned otherwise. There was a time where I, I desperately cared what people thought of me, desperately. Not professionally. I always, somehow, knew that, that didn’t matter. But personally. When you’re worried about what people think of you, you stop being who you are and you start tailoring yourself to everybody else so that they like you.

    GANGEL: You don’t worry what people think about you?

    LIMBAUGH: Well I’d be insane if I did. I don’t even give people the power to offend me. I’m not, you cannot offend me.

     
    Hat Tip:
    NBC’s Gangel Tries to Broker Beer Summit for Rush and Obama
    http://newsbusters.org/blogs/geoffrey-dickens/2009/10/13/nbcs-gangel-tries-broker-beer-summit-rush-obama