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    “The world is a dangerous place to live;
    not because of the people who are evil,
    but because of the people who don't do anything about it.”
    Albert Einstein (1879-1955, German born American Physicist)
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  • Global Warming? You're Crazy!

    carol | December 22, 2008

    I have been on the snowy roads a couple times during the past week, and I got thinking that we are NUTS to live in this country and NOT have a big gas guzzling 4WD SUV. Al Gore has no clue.

    Here is our driveway following last night’s blizzard. Derek had to spend the last few hours in the freezing cold wind, working hard to snowblow the driveway so we can go to a Christmas party this evening.

    This year and last year, were the first white Christmas’s we have had in YEARS.

    Will Canada see its first white Christmas since ’71?
    http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/20081221/winter_storm_081221/20081221?hub=CTVNewsAt11

    Blizzard

    carol | December 22, 2008

    Winnie the Pooh’s blustery day was a day at the beach compared to today. Last night, the wind blew… and blew… and the snow fell… and fell. Here is what I saw looking out this morning.

    It is still wild out there.

    Sort of puts the damper on last minute Christmas shopping around here.

    Some Notes from the Weekend

    carol | December 22, 2008

    Each of the four children bought a gift for a sibling. Derek and I exchanged gifts, and they exchanged gifts on Saturday night.

    Yesterday, we awoke to the “chilly” temperature of -22 degrees Fahrenheit (about -30 C). We went to church. I spent the afternoon in front of the fire wearing two sweaters, a blanket, and watched Anne of Green Gables, eating Toblerone chocolate.

    Last night, we were invited to Nana and Papa’s for supper. We were happy that Ruth and Jordan had just arrived home. It was fun watching our cat and their cat get acquainted annoyed with each other all evening. Nana made a delicious seafood stirfry and had lots of desserts. Huckleberry had some tall tales. We had fun playing losing the movie game, Scene-It.

    We walked home when the blizzard was just beginning. Here are the pets when they came in.

    C7 and L4 Playing in the Snow

    carol | December 22, 2008

     

    "It was the new Jerusalem, That would not pass away."

    carol | December 15, 2008

    I recently wrote a Christmas card that said Dear Grampie… without Grammy.

    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/09/28/remembering-grammy-1921-2008/

    The Holy City
    Words: Frederick Weatherly, 1892
    Music: Michael Maybrick

    Last night I lay a sleeping,
    There came a dream so fair,
    I stood in old Jerusalem
    Beside the temple there.
    I heard the children singing,
    And ever as they sang,
    Methought the voice of angels
    From Heav’n in answer rang;
    Methought the voice of angels
    From Heav’n in answer rang:—
    “Jerusalem! Jerusalem!
    Lift up your gates and sing,
    Hosanna in the highest
    Hosanna to your King!”

    And then methought my dream was chang’d,
    The streets no longer rang,
    Hush’d were the glad hosannas
    The little children sang.
    The sun grew dark with mystery,
    The morn was cold and chill,
    As the shadow of a cross arose
    Upon a lonely hill,
    As the shadow of a cross arose
    Upon a lonely hill.
    “Jerusalem! Jerusalem!
    Hark! how the angels sing,
    Hosanna in the highest,
    Hosanna to your King.”

    And once again the scene was chang’d,
    New earth there seem’d to be,
    I saw the Holy City
    Beside the tideless sea;
    The light of God was on its streets,
    The gates were open wide,
    And all who would might enter,
    And no one was denied.
    No need of moon or stars by night,
    Or sun to shine by day,
    It was the new Jerusalem,
    That would not pass away,
    It was the new Jerusalem,
    That would not pass away.
    “Jerusalem! Jerusalem!
    Sing, for the night is o’er!
    Hosanna in the highest,
    Hosanna for evermore!
    Hosanna in the highest,
    Hosanna for evermore!”

    Weekend in Pictures

    carol | December 15, 2008


    We brought home the tree which needed to thaw.


    Decorating the Tree


    Taking a Break to Play Tennis
    They RARELY play the Wii because the older boys prefer PS3 by far.
    I thought the younger two might like to play the Wii for a change.


    The Christmas Tree is Done!
    (Note the black cat on the left)


    The Living Room Ready for Christmas

    In the evening, we watched the Nativity Story with hot chocolate and popcorn, and earlier in the day, while I was making apple crisp and biscuits, we watched Mr. Bean Merry Christmas.

    Family Pictures with faces here:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/15/weekend-in-pictures-private/

    These movies were watched this weekend by some or another.

    I had been looking forward to seeing Horton Hears a Who for the first time, especially for the pro-life message. I felt they diminished that as much as possible, and I was sooooo not impressed with the nasty kangaroo and her pouch schooling. Argh!!!

    Shopping and Sliding

    carol | December 11, 2008

    Instead of school (except some math), we took the day off to go Christmas shopping. The children each picked names to get each other presents. It was interesting who was more concerned in what THEY would get, rather than give.

    The snow was perfect for sliding, so when we got home, they quickly put their new crazy carpets and flying saucers to good use.

    Here is another picture for registered readers.
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/11/sliding-fun/

    Edited to add: I found out that the day before, as well as the day after, our Christmas shopping field trip, that the local schools were cancelled due to bad weather. The children worked on both those days and took off the nice day in the middle.

    C7

    carol | December 10, 2008

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    Christmas Decorating and Family Christmas Traditions

    carol | December 4, 2008

    Here are most of our Christmas traditions. Some of the pictures are new, but many are from years gone past.

    Advent Candles and Wreath:

    On each Sunday in Advent, we light the candles and add some extra comments to our Jesse Tree devotions.

    Jesse Tree:

    Complete details and pictures of our Jesse Tree are found here:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/12/04/family-christmas-tradition-jesse-tree/

    Mistletoe:

    We have a little cluster of mistletoe that we hang from a small hook in the ceiling above one of the two entrances to our living room. C7, in particular, is always thrilled to see the mistletoe, and I hold her up to hang it. It is in a spot with some traffic, but not too much, so it does get used. L4 said, “I am going to run under the mistletoe, and when Daddy gets home, I’m going to tiss him!”

    Ceramic Christmas Tree:

    When we were first married, my grandmother gave us a small green ceramic Christmas tree with lots of little lights. When I store it each year, most of the lights stay on, but enough fall off to give the children the fun of decorating without getting sick of the job. The tree has a special place on the entry shelf.

    Hummel Christmas Ornaments:

    My mother-in-law added to my Hummel collection by giving me quite a few Hummel Christmas ornaments. They are very cute little children celebrating Christmas and winter. My children are very careful when unwrapping the little figurines and pass them to me after I have the evergreen boughs situated on the mantle and organ. I also decorate a couple wall wreaths with the Hummels. They look very cute nestled among the white lights and greenery.

    Fisher-Price Little People Nativity Set:

    Even though the children are getting older, there are still cheers when they spot this nativity set among the decorations. It has its own place on a cabinet, but gets brought down to the floor for play.

    We also own the Playmobil Nativity Set, but we really don’t like it. It has a paper stable and the pieces all fall apart.

    Baby Jesus in a Manger:

    This is one of my favorite Christmas decorations. My mother-in-law bought me a lovely realistic boy doll, and my father-in-law made a manger filled with straw. The children, especially my daughter, just love playing with the Baby Jesus doll. Last year, they dressed up as Mary and Joseph and acted out the story. This year, I laughed when C7 said to B10, “You have to be Joseph. L4 is too young to be Joseph.” He wasn’t impressed, but she, of course, is looking forward to being Mary.

    Box of Christmas Books:

    We have a box of quite a few Christmas books that we store all year and bring them out only for the month of December. The books feel new and exciting to the children, and they spend hours looking at them. I try to read most of them aloud some time during December. I also get some at the library. Here are some of the Christmas books in our box.

    The Best Christmas Pageant Ever:

    We read this chapter book every December. It is always a hit.

    Lego Advent Calendar:

    Instead of chocolate advent calendars, we bought the Lego Advent Calendar this year. Next year, I would like to get one of those wooden advent calendars that I could fill with my own ideas. I could reuse the Lego toys, or fill them with candies or chocolates, maybe even love notes. There are lots of options.

    Paper Chains:

    Early in December, the children usually make paper chains and decorate them with stickers. They rip the links off to count down until Christmas.

    Nativity Story Movie:

    The Nativity Story is a beautiful account of the Biblical story in the historical setting. The movie makes it “more real” rather than just reading the story (which we will do anyway, of course). It is easy to focus on what IS TRUE in the movie, rather than look for imperfections. My favorite part was how God provided Mary with the comfort of Elizabeth for the six months. I also appreciated the portrayal of the kind and gentle character of Joseph. To raise boys to such standards would be a blessing indeed.

    Christmas Movies:

    The Grinch (old traditional cartoon), etc.

    Mr. Bean Merry Christmas
    Christmas Socks!

    Christmas Caroling:

    My mother prepares little Christmas treats, including homemade fudge, and the children and I and my mother visit some of the old people in our family. We usually sing a few Christmas carols (typically Away in a Manger, Silent Night, and We Wish You a Merry Christmas). We visit for a short while at about seven or more homes.

    Old Folk’s Home:

    We make sure we visit the Senior’s Home before Christmas and sing Christmas carols with a group of people. This year, B10 played two Christmas songs on the keyboard and read from Luke 2. C7 froze and couldn’t sing the song she practiced, “All I Want for Christmas is My Two Front Teeth”.

    Christmas Cookies:

    We always make sugar cookies before Christmas. The children roll the dough and cut them out with Christmas cookie cutters. Then they add bright icing and sprinkles.

    The Christmas Tree:

    Since we always get a real evergreen spruce tree, we don’t put it up until a week before Christmas. When we decorate, we turn on Christmas music and put on a fire in the living room. We bring down the large storage container of teddy bears for the children to play with while I walk from chair to chair around the tree attaching several strands of white lights. Then, we all put the teddy bears on the tree. Lastly, I wrap a wide ribbon around and around the tree. We wait until it is all done before turning on the lights. Lah di dah!

    Here is a one-of-a-kind photo of the time Derek let us put a tree on top of the van.

    Christmas Music:

    Musical Special:

    This year, I am thrilled that we have a family ticket for all of us to go to Handel’s Messiah.

    Grandma’s House:

    Each year, the children (never a child younger than three years) stay at Grandma’s for the day while Derek and I travel to a nearby city to go Christmas shopping.

    Gingerbread House:

    Every year, we buy a prefab gingerbread house and the children have fun decorating with icing and candy.

    Nana’s Birthday:

    On the 23rd, we get together with the rest of the family to celebrate my mother’s birthday. It is usually at Grammie’s. Last year, we did a group rendition of the Addams Family Theme Song which Derek had written. Snap, snap.

    Opening Presents at Our House:

    One unusual tradition we have is that we have NEVER had the children open their Christmas presents from us on Christmas morning. Depending on various factors, we always open them one, two, or three days before Christmas. We go to Derek’s parents’ house early Christmas morning, and then to my parents’ house later in the morning and for dinner.

    Christmas Parties:
    I usually host one large party and one or two family get-togethers.

    Christmas Church Services:
    We never know where we will end up.

    Edited to add more traditions as I think of them:

    Christmas Lights

    We also drive around the community to look at the houses with lots of Christmas lights.

    Old Home Movies

    Some years, we watch old family Christmas videos or old home movies.

    Christmas Story Night Before We Open Presents

    Grammie

    We love to visit at Grammie’s when she has just made homemade doughnuts and cinnamon buns.

    Edited December 2009:

    Small Trees for Children’s Rooms

    We painted and decorated the children’s room this fall, so when it came time to decorate for Christmas, I bought two 4′ trees. We decorated the one in the girl’s room with pink decorations and the one in the boys’ room has blue decorations. They were thrilled.

    Christmas Party

    I forgot to mention that I usually have two Christmas parties. One is for homeschoolers (and friends) and the other is for family. My mother and grandmother usually contribute some food to the homeschooler’s party, but I never let anyone else bring anything. I want them to have a night out with nothing to do.

    Snowflakes

    carol | November 19, 2008

    If it HAS to snow, I like it when you can see the detail of each snowflake. That is what happened today. I took these pictures of snowflakes that landed on our deck and BBQ.
     

    They passed

    carol | November 6, 2008

    their first Tae Kwon Do test tonight, so they get their next belts. Yay!

    No Fear Hallowe'en Fun

    carol | November 1, 2008

    The six of us (and Nana) went on our annual trick-or-treating rounds last night. During the drive up around the river, we make the same jokes year after year. We visit all the “old folks” in the extended family.

    Huckleberry Hound (Papa’s puppet) was dressed as a clown and was met by cheers and giggles from the children. When we stopped at my great-aunt’s house,  I asked her to be my accomplice in crime by sparing a roll of toilet paper, so I could T.P. Melanie’s car. At another great aunt’s, we asked to borrow a spoon, so Derek could tease his mother about her fudge which usually needs to be eaten with a spoon. Almost every house served us homemade fudge. Elizabeth gave us a little fireworks show. We visited my baby niece who was dressed in the same little pumpkin costume that all four of my babies wore at her age.

    I’m sorry to report that the drive home was roadblock-free. We ate junk all the way home and then dumped the rest on the living room floor as usual. We made a big pile for Derek to take to work, and after eating lots and saving some, we went to bed.

    As a Christian family, we have long ago claimed Hallowe’en as a good, fun, and fearless tradition that has resulted in many happy memories.

    Girls dancing at a ball – Boys playing video games

    carol | October 31, 2008


    They danced to the Sound of Music Soundtrack.
    (My Favorite Things)

    More pictures in this private post:
    http://parentingfreedom.com/2008/10/31/friends-came-over-yesterday/

    Hallowe'en Memory

    carol | October 30, 2008

    When we go trick-or-treating, we almost always come across a flaming roadblock on the drive home, sometimes forcing us to take a detour. Here is N in front of one of those roadblocks in 2002. We thought he looked like Harry Potter.

    Derek's Hallowe'en Pumpkin Masterpieces 2008

    carol | October 29, 2008


    C7′s Choice: Pippin, Our Black Cat


    L4′s Choice: Mater (from Cars)


    B10′s Choice: X-Box 360


    N15 let me choose the pattern for his pumpkin: Sarah Palin

    Tractors in the Yard

    carol | October 29, 2008

    My Family

    carol | October 15, 2008


    All Six of Us


    The Children with the Dog and Cat


    The Four

    Grammy in Red Shoes

    carol | October 9, 2008

    My friend Andrea noticed, in my post “Remembering Grammy”, that Grammy was wearing “Sarah Palin” red shoes, too! This was Grammy and me back in 1973.

    If I looked in the albums, I know I could find many more pictures of her in red shoes.