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  • “Third Voice” Music Video

    carol | February 16, 2010

    Third Voice ~ Fresh Anointing

    Hat Tip: http://www.jillstanek.com/

    “Unborn” Music Video

    carol | February 15, 2010

    Caitlin Jane- Unborn

    Hat Tip: http://realchoice.blogspot.com/

    We Are The World 2010 Remake Music Video

    carol | February 13, 2010

    We Are The World 25 For Haiti – Official Video

    I am not a fan of the Olympics, but I was looking forward to this video. I didn’t recognize many singers this time compared to the video from twenty-five years ago when I knew EVERY star. Getting old! I teared up when seeing Michael Jackson, of course. :-( Sad about Haiti, too.

    Blue Skies Smiling at Me

    carol | January 24, 2010

    Ella Fitzgerald – Blue Skies

    Blue Skies

    I was blue, just as blue as I could be
    Ev’ry day was a cloudy day for me
    Then good luck came a-knocking at my door
    Skies were gray but they’re not gray anymore

    Blue skies
    Smiling at me
    Nothing but blue skies
    Do I see

    Bluebirds
    Singing a song
    Nothing but bluebirds
    All day long

    Never saw the sun shining so bright
    Never saw things going so right
    Noticing the days hurrying by
    When you’re in love, my how they fly

    Blue days
    All of them gone
    Nothing but blue skies
    From now on

    I should care if the wind blows east or west
    I should fret if the worst looks like the best
    I should mind if they say it can’t be true
    I should smile, that’s exactly what I do

    Babywearing Music Videos

    carol | January 16, 2010

    Baby Mamas (Put a Sling On ‘Em)

    Bæring ( babywearing )

    Somebody Loved
    Rain turns the sand into mud
    Wind turns the trees into bone
    Stars turning high up above
    You turn me into somebody loved

    Nights when the heat had gone out
    We danced together alone
    Cold turned our breath into clouds
    We never said what we were dreaming of
    But you turned me into somebody loved

    Someday when we’re old and worn
    Like two softened shoes
    I will wonder on how I was born
    The night I first ran away from you

    Now my feet turn the corner back home
    Sun turns the evening to rose
    Stars turning high up above
    You turn me into somebody loved

    Great job, Maddy!

    carol | January 16, 2010

    ‘American Idol 9′: Maddy Curtis stands out in Boston

    UPDATED – American Idol: 9th Child of 12, Daughter of Pro-Life Blogger Advances to Next Round
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/jan/10011501.html

    http://mommylife.net/

    Freedom ~ Robert Miles

    carol | January 2, 2010

    Robert Miles – Freedom

    Freedom ~ Robert Miles

    All my life I have searched for clues
    This is what they taught me
    Every mystery I pursued
    Was a secret I already knew
    Deep down you know – in your soul
    Love is in control
    How, if you could find the angel within
    Time, time to have faith in your wings

    Free – everybody’s free
    In the new day that’s coming
    Freedom for all is our destiny

    Every stone that I left unturned
    Soon came back to haunt me
    Every fall, every finger burned
    Was a step on the road to the truth
    That I am you – in my soul
    You are not alone
    How, when your heart is turned to stone
    Love, love is the only way home

    Free – everyone’s free
    In the new day that’s coming
    Freedom for all is our destiny

    Free – everything’s free
    In the new day that’s coming
    Freedom for all is our destiny

    Freedom from shame
    Freedmo from fear
    Freedom to live – it’s your right to be here

    Minor Incidents

    carol | December 31, 2009

    Quoting the boy, in the movie, About A Boy, “There were people out there who had a good time in life. I was beginning to realize, I wasn’t one of them. I just didn’t fit. I didn’t fit at my old school. I definitely didn’t fit at my new one. I heard that some kids got taught by their parents at home. But Mom couldn’t do that unless I paid her to teach me, because it was just her and me and she had to work… So basically, I had to go to school…”

    Badly Drawn Boy – A Minor Incident

    A Minor Incident

    There’s nothing I could say
    To make you try to feel ok
    And nothing you could do
    To stop me feeling the way I do
    And if the chance should happen
    That I never see you again
    Just remember that I’ll always love you

    I’d be a better person
    On the other side I’m sure
    You’d find a way to help yourself
    And find another door
    To shrug off minor incidents
    And make us both feel proud
    I just wish I could be there
    To see you through

    You always were the one
    To make us stand out in a crowd
    Though every once upon a while
    Your head was in the cloud
    There’s nothing you could never do
    To ever let me down
    And remember that I’ll always love you

    Some Favorite Lines from Christmas Hymns

    carol | December 23, 2009

    GOD REST YE MERRY, GENTLEMEN
    http://nethymnal.org/htm/g/o/godrest.htm
    God rest ye merry, gentlemen, let nothing you dismay,
    Remember Christ our Savior was born on Christmas Day;
    To save us all from Satan’s power when we were gone astray.
    O tidings of comfort and joy, comfort and joy;
    O tidings of comfort and joy.

    O HOLY NIGHT
    http://nethymnal.org/htm/o/h/oholynit.htm
    Truly He taught us to love one another;
    His law is love and His Gospel is peace.
    Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother
    And in His Name all oppression shall cease.

    ANGELS FROM THE REALMS OF GLORY
    http://nethymnal.org/htm/a/f/afrglory.htm
    Sinners, wrung with true repentance,
    Doomed for guilt to endless pains,
    Justice now revokes the sentence,
    Mercy calls you; break your chains.

    O COME, O COME, EMMANUEL
    http://nethymnal.org/htm/o/c/ocomocom.htm
    O come, O come, Emmanuel,
    And ransom captive Israel,
    That mourns in lonely exile here
    Until the Son of God appear.

    COME THOU LONG EXPECTED JESUS
    Come Thou Long Expected Jesus,
    Born to set Thy people free:
    From our fears and sins release us;
    Let us find our rest in Thee.

    SILENT NIGHT
    Silent night, Holy night
    Son of God, love’s pure light
    Radiant beams from Thy holy face
    With the dawn of redeeming grace.

    STAR OF THE EAST
    We may read, we may learn, from His birth to His grave,
    The teachings of peace and of love;
    For this is the King Who is mighty to save;
    His grace and His love we may prove.

    “Cop Tases 10-Year-Old Girl”

    carol | December 21, 2009

    Cop Tases 10-Year-Old Girl
    Arkansas mother suggested stun gun treatment for unruly daughter
    http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2009/1118091taser1.html

    “An Arkansas cop tasered an unruly 10-year-old girl after her mother called police to report that the child was crying, screaming, and refusing to go to bed…”

    “Officer Dustin Bradshaw arrived at the residence last Thursday, he found the girl ’screaming, kicking, and resisting every time her mother tried to touch her.’ Bradshaw added that, ‘Her mother told me to tase her if I needed to.’ After Kiara continued to refuse her mother’s instructions, the cop concluded that ‘there was not going to be a peaceful resolution of the issue.’ Bradshaw warned the girl that she was ‘going to jail,’ but the child continued kicking and crying and resisted his attempt to handcuff her. During the tussle, Kiara ’struck me with her legs and feet in the groin, reported Bradshaw, who countered with a brief ’stun to her back’ with his Taser. The child, not surprisingly, ‘immediately stopped resisting and was placed into handcuffs. She would not walk on her own and I had to carry her to my police car.’ Kiara was then transported to a youth shelter.”

    Foreigner-I Want to Know What Love Is

    I Want to Know What Love Is ~ Foreigner
    I gotta take a little time
    A little time to think things over
    I better read between the lines
    In case I need it when I’m older
    Aaaah woah-ah-aah

    Now this mountain I must climb
    Feels like a world upon my shoulders
    And through the clouds I see love shine
    It keeps me warm as life grows colder

    In my life there’s been heartache and pain
    I don’t know if I can face it again
    Can’t stop now, I’ve traveled so far
    To change this lonely life

    I wanna know what love is
    I want you to show me
    I wanna feel what love is
    I know you can show me
    Aaaah woah-oh-ooh

    I’m gonna take a little time
    A little time to look around me, oooh ooh-ooh ooh-ooh oooh
    I’ve got nowhere left to hide
    It looks like love has finally found me

    In my life there’s been heartache and pain
    I don’t know if I can face it again
    I can’t stop now, I’ve traveled so far
    To change this lonely life

    I wanna know what love is
    I want you to show me
    I wanna feel what love is
    I know you can show me
    I wanna know what love is
    I want you to show me
    And I wanna feel, I want to feel what love is
    And I know, I know you can show me

    Let’s talk about love
    (I wanna know what love is) the love that you feel inside
    (I want you to show me) I’m feeling so much love
    (I wanna feel what love is) no, you just cannot hide
    (I know you can show me) yeah, woah-oh-ooh
    I wanna know what love is, let’s talk about love
    (I want you to show me) I wanna feel it too
    (I wanna feel what love is) I wanna feel it too
    And I know, and I know, I know you can show me
    Show me what is real, woah (woah), yeah I know
    (I wanna know what love is) hey I wanna know what love
    (I want you to show me), I wanna know, I wanna know, want know
    (I wanna feel what love is), hey I wanna feel, love
    I know you can show me, yeah

    Humbling and Terrifying

    carol | December 18, 2009

    The Known Universe by AMNH

    “He stretches out the north over empty space;
    He hangs the earth on nothing.”

    Job 26:7

    “If heaven above can be measured,
    And the foundations of the earth searched out beneath,
    I will also cast off all the seed of Israel
    For all that they have done, says the LORD.”

    Jeremiah 31:37

    “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.”
    Genesis 1:1

    “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made. In Him was life, and the life was the light of men. And the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.”
    John 1:1-5

    CREATOR OF THE WORLD, TO THEE
    http://nethymnal.org/htm/c/o/w/cow2thee.htm

    Creator of the world, to Thee
    And endless rest of joy belongs;
    And heavenly choirs are ever free
    To sing on high their festal songs.

    But we are fallen creatures here,
    Where pain and sorrow daily come;
    And how can we in exile drear
    Sing out, as they, sweet songs of Home?

    O Father, who dost promise still
    That they who mourn shall blessèd be,
    Grant us to weep for deeds of ill

    That banish us so long from Thee.

    But weeping, grant us faith to rest
    In hope upon Thy loving care;
    Till Thou restore us, with the blest,
    Their songs of praise in Heav’n to share.

    To Father, Son and Holy Ghost,
    The God Whom Heav’n and earth adore,
    From men and from the angel host
    Be praise and glory evermore.

    Growing Up Presbyterian

    carol | December 10, 2009

    The Twelve Doctrines of Christmas

    If you haven’t grown up Presbyterian, you might not recognize or understand the terms mentioned in the above song. I added some definitions from Wikipedia (not the best source, but it gives you the idea.)

    Doctrine of Perspicuity ~ The infallible rule of interpretation of Scripture, is the Scripture itself; and therefore, when there is a question about the true and full sense of any scripture (which is not manifold, but one), it may be searched and known by other places that speak more clearly.

    Dichotomy ~ The belief that humans consist of a soul and a body.

    Hypostatic Union ~ A technical term in Christian theology employed in mainstream Christology to describe the presence of both human and divine natures in Jesus Christ. The Gospel of John 10:37-38 quotes Jesus as follows: “…that you may know and understand that the Father is in me, and I in the Father.”

    Forensic Justification ~ God’s act of declaring or making a sinner righteous before God.

    Five Points of Calvinism ~

    1. Total depravity ~ As a consequence of the Fall of Man, every person born into the world is enslaved to the service of sin and, apart from the efficacious or prevenient grace of God, is utterly unable to choose to follow God or choose to accept salvation as it is freely offered.

    2. Unconditional election ~ Before God created the world, he chose to save some people according to his own purposes and apart from any conditions related to those persons.

    3. Limited atonement ~ Jesus Christ’s substitutionary atonement on the cross is limited in scope to those who are predestined unto salvation and its primary benefits are not given to all of humanity but rather just believers.

    4. Irresistible grace ~ The saving grace of God is effectually applied to those whom He has determined to save (the elect) and, in God’s timing, overcomes their resistance to obeying the call of the gospel, bringing them to a saving faith in Christ.

    5. Perseverance of the saints ~ None who are truly saved can be condemned for their sins or finally fall away from the faith.

    Amillennialism ~ The thousand years mentioned in Revelation 20 is a symbolic number, not a literal description; that the millennium has already begun and is identical with the current church age, (or more rarely, that it ended with the destruction of Jerusalem in AD 70 — see Preterism). Amillennialism holds that while Christ’s reign during the millennium is spiritual in nature, at the end of the church age, Christ will return in final judgment and establish permanent physical reign.

    Anthropomorphism ~ refers to the perception of a divine being or beings in human form, or the recognition of human qualities in these beings

    Tetragrammaton ~ The Hebrew term for the name of the god of Israel in the Hebrew Bible.

    95 Theses ~ written by Martin Luther in 1517 and are widely regarded as the primary catalyst for the Protestant Reformation

    Note: I believe in Paedobaptism as opposed to Credobaptism.

    Paedobaptism ~ Christian religious practice of baptising infants or young children. Infants or young children may be baptized upon request of a parent who professes faith.

    Credobaptism ~ A person is baptized on the basis of his or her profession of faith in Jesus Christ and as admission into a local community of faith.

    Salvific Monergism ~ God through the Holy Spirit works to effectually bring about the salvation of individuals through spiritual regeneration without cooperation from the individual.

    Supralapsarianism ~ The view that God’s decrees of election and reprobation logically preceded the decree of the fall while infralapsarianism (also called postlapsarianism and sublapsarianism) asserts that God’s decrees of election and reprobation logically succeeded the decree of the fall.

    Let It Go

    carol | December 5, 2009

    “Live not in yesterdays, look back and you may sorrow. Live precisely for today, look forward to tomorrow.”
    J. J. Hulsgen

    “Love…does not take into account a wrong suffered.”
    1 Corinthians 13:5 NASB

    “And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.”
    Mark 11:25-26

    Tim McGraw: Let It Go

    Let it Go ~ Tim McGraw
    I’ve been caught sideways out here on the crossroads
    Trying to buy back the pieces I lost of my soul
    It’s hard when the devil won’t get off your back
    It’s like carrying around the past in a hundred pound sack

    [Chorus]
    Today I’m gonna keep on walking
    I’m gonna hold my head up high
    I’m gonna leave it all behind
    Today I’m gonna stand out in the rain
    Let it wash it all away Yeah wash it all away
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah

    Skeletons and Ghosts are hiding in the shadows
    Threatening me with all the things that they know
    Choices and mistakes, they all know my name
    But I’m through holding in and holding onto all that pain

    Today I’m gonna keep on walking
    I’m gonna hold my head up high
    Got No more tears to cry
    Today I’m gonna stand out in the rain
    Let it wash it all away Yeah wash it all away
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah

    And I know I know I know I know I’ve been forgiven
    I know I know I know I’m gonna start living
    Today I’m gonna keep on walking
    I’m gonna hold my head up high
    I’m gonna leave it all behind
    Today I’m gonna stand out in the rain
    Let it wash it all away Yeah wash it all away
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    I’m gonna let it go Oh yeah
    Oh yeah

    LUBA let it go live canadian music
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSFqcBswcjQ

    Let it Go ~ LUBA
    Too many doubts
    Too much fear
    Too much danger
    When society constructs
    Our human nature
    Live by the rules
    Live by the laws
    Live by commandments
    Notions preconceived
    Can lead to utter madness

    [chorus]
    Let it go
    Let it go
    Let it free your body
    Let it move your soul
    We are made
    We are not born

    Learn to convert
    Learn to assert
    Learn to abandon
    Ideologies and
    Disciplines at random
    Lay down the rules
    Lay down the laws
    Lay down commandments
    Lift the sanctions
    That restrict this woman’s madness

    Uniformity
    Conventionality
    Is the fate of our existence
    Keep it safely at a distance
    Nonconformity
    Unconventionality
    Is the fate to be
    Let your hair down
    Can’t you say

    Lloyd Marcus: Our Girls, Tribute to Conservative Women

    carol | December 3, 2009

    Our Girls, Tribute to Conservative Women by Lloyd Marcus

    Hat Tip: http://texas4palin.blogspot.com/2009/12/lloyd-marcus-our-girls.html

    “Into each life some rain must fall”

    carol | December 1, 2009

    Into Each Life

    INTO EACH LIFE SOME RAIN MUST FALL
    Ella Fitzgerald & The Ink Spots – 1944

    Into each life some rain must fall
    But too much is falling in mine
    Into each heart some tears must fall
    But some day the sun will shine

    Some folks can lose the blues in their hearts
    But when I think of you another shower starts
    Into each life some rain must fall
    But too much is falling in mine

    SPOKEN (Ink Spots Version):
    Into each and every life some rain has got to fall
    But too much of that stuff is fallin’ into mine
    And into each heart some tears gotta fall
    And I know that someday that sun is bound to shine

    Some folks can lose the blues in their heart
    But when I think of you another shower starts
    Into each life some rain must fall
    But too much is fallin’ in mine