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  • “Stay-at-Home Moms Deserve Compensation”

    carol | March 4, 2010

    Cardinal: Stay-at-Home Moms Deserve Compensation, Incentives
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10030313.html

    “The president of the Pontifical Council for the Family, Cardinal Ennio Antonelli, has highlighted the importance of a mother in the home caring for her family and has suggested economic compensation or tax reductions for those women who choose to do this…”

    “Cardinal Antonelli also addressed the problem of the effects of a missing father figure on children, and cited statistics from the U.S. which he said illustrate a trend in many parts of the Western world to single parent families.”

    “‘Ninety percent of homeless people, 72 percent of adolescent suicides, 60 percent of rapists and 85 percent of youth in jail grew up without a father present,’ the Cardinal said.”

    “‘The traditional family,’ Cardinal Antonelli continued, ‘is even being considered oppressive injustice, and matrimony and maternity are viewed as things from which a woman must liberate herself.’”

    “The Cardinal pointed out that while raising a family and seeking a career outside the home are not incompatible for women, support services and a ‘variety of opportunities in professional work: part-time work, telework, flexibility of hours and vacations’ are crucial to a successful outcome.”

    “Homemakers are now the journalists.”

    carol | February 20, 2010

    Exposing media bias…

    “Average citizens are starting to do the job they’re [mainstream media] supposed to do… Homemakers are now the journalists.” Andrew Breitbart

    Breitbart to NY Times Reporter for Alleging Racial Tones at CPAC: ‘You’re a Despicable Human Being’
    http://newsbusters.org/blogs/jeff-poor/2010/02/19/cpac-breitbart-calls-ny-times-reporter-who-alleged-racism-cpac-despicable

    I know I wouldn’t want to trade places with a working mother.

    carol | February 18, 2010

    What women want in 2010: A husband who’ll be the main breadwinner
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1251873/What-women-want-2010-A-husband-wholl-main-breadwinner.html

    “Young mothers are turning their backs on high-powered careers to raise their children, a study has found…”

    “‘Having tried full-time working themselves they have found the home much more interesting and want to be enabled to have that – especially if the only job they have access to is a dull job.’”

    “He said there had been a gradual move back towards ‘more positive evaluations of women’s traditional “work” in the family and informal community’.”

    Grandparents Babysitting Can Make Your Children Fat

    carol | February 16, 2010

    Grandparents who care for children ‘boost obesity risk’
    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8513112.stm

    “Young children who are regularly looked after by their grandparents have an increased risk of being overweight, an extensive British study has suggested.”

    “Analysis of 12,000 three-year olds suggested the risk was 34% higher if grandparents cared for them full time…”

    “The results showed that those looked after by grandparents part-time had a 15% higher risk of being overweight for their age compared with those solely looked after by their parents.”

    “French feminist warns green movement forcing women to stay at home”

    carol | February 13, 2010

    Funny stuff.

    French feminist warns green movement forcing women to stay at home
    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/france/7206627/French-feminist-warns-green-movement-forcing-women-to-stay-at-home.html

    Green Wackos Forcing Women To Be Stay At Home Moms?
    http://www.stoptheaclu.com/2010/02/11/green-wackos-forcing-women-to-be-stay-at-home-moms/

    Who has more freedom? Stay-at-home mothers or working women? As a stay-at-home mother, I feel like I know what it means to be free.

    “Middle-class children are struggling to learn how to talk because working parents are unable to offer them the quality time.”

    carol | December 31, 2009

    Middle-class parents too busy to teach children how to talk, says ‘communication champion’
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1239737/Middle-class-parents-busy-teach-children-talk-says-communication-champion.html#ixzz0bJVbkxF3

    Must. Get. To. Work.

    carol | December 8, 2009

    “Housekeeping is like being caught in a revolving door.”
    Marcelene Cox

    “My idea of housework is to sweep the room with a glance.”
    Author Unknown

    “This mess is a place!”
    Author Unknown

    “I believe you should live each day as if it is your last, which is why I don’t have any clean laundry, because, come on, who wants to wash clothes on the last day of their life?”
    Author Unknown

    "Time is not ours, but God's"

    carol | October 19, 2009

    The Domestic Monastery …
    http://www.lifeissues.net/writers/ron/ron_14domesticmonastery.html

    “For example, the mother who stays home with small children experiences a very real withdrawal from the world. Her existence is definitely monastic. Her tasks and preoccupations remove her from the centres of power and social importance. And she feels it. Moreover her sustained contact with young children (the mildest of the mild) gives her a privileged opportunity to be in harmony with the mild, that is, to attune herself to the powerlessness rather than to the powerful.”

    Pope Benedict XVI: Children "who feel like they are orphans are not children without parents, but children who have too many parents"

    carol | October 19, 2009

    Divorce, cohabitation ruin the lives of many children, pope says
    http://www.catholicnews.com/data/stories/cns/0904281.htm

    “More and more couples build their unions on the fragility and impermanence of cohabitation, which is merely based on an ‘individual’s feeling or subjectivity,’ he said.”

    “He said as divorces increase and cohabitation is on the rise, the children in these situations are ‘deprived of their parents’ support and become victims of malaise and abandonment, thus spreading social disorder.’”

    “Children need concrete fixed points of reference such as having one set of parents who will always be united as a family, the pope said.”

    “He said divorce is sabotaging the traditional sense of an extended family by creating too many ‘parents,’ such as stepmothers and stepfathers.”

    “In fact, the majority of children today ‘who feel like they are orphans are not children without parents, but children who have too many parents,’ he said.”

    “This situation of a child caught between the different expectations and mixed messages of too many stepparents ‘cannot help but create inner conflicts and confusion’ within the child, he said.”

    I am reminded of children with too many teachers as well.

    Kindergarten All-Day Care

    carol | September 18, 2009

    Plan for all-day kindergarten in BC leaves many perplexed
    http://www.todaysfamilynews.ca/Education/plan-for-all-day-kindergarten-in-bc-leaves-many-perplexed.html

    “…The move toward full-day kindergarten should rightly be considered an extension of the daycare debate. Having failed to secure a national daycare strategy at the federal level, daycare activists are looking toward the provinces. In Ontario, the stated intent behind the full-day kindergarten plan is to provide care to younger and younger ages, with schools providing the infrastructure as community hubs.”

    “However, the reality of such programs is that they remove choice from parents by preferentially funding only one type of care. Seventy-eight per cent of parents say they prefer to have a spouse or family member care for their child, over and above a competent caregiver.”

    “Most importantly, the social science does not show benefits to full-day institutionalization for our youngest children…”

    Depressed Children and Teens

    carol | September 18, 2009

    Signs of depression in preschoolers while teen suicides fourth highest among Western nations
    http://www.todaysfamilynews.ca/Health/signs-of-depression-in-preschoolers-while-teen-suicides-top-western-nations.html

    “Stressed parents and young lives that are ‘over-programmed’ may be at least part of the reason why researchers have found that close to 15 per cent of Quebec-born preschoolers show signs of feeling depressed, the Montreal Gazette reported.”

    “‘They’re being put under a tremendous amount of pressure to achieve certain milestones at earlier and earlier ages,’ said Montreal psychologist Abe Worenklein…”

    “Meanwhile, a new study by the Paris-based Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development of young people in Western nations found that the suicide rate among Canada’s teenagers was significantly higher than average, the Ottawa Citizen reported.”

    Attachment Parenting: Actress Mayim Bialik (Blossom)

    carol | August 30, 2009

    Mayim Bialik aka “Blossom”: Celebrity “poster mom” for attachment parenting
    http://www.examiner.com/x-17929-Denver-Attachment-Parenting–Examiner~y2009m8d28-Mayim-Bialik-aka-Blossom-Poster-mom-for-attachment-parenting

    “Mayim Bialik, star of the hit 90’s TV series “Blossom,” has talked openly about her “strange” parenting practices. While many celebrities give a nod to breastfeeding, Bialik has made a true commitment to the attachment parenting lifestyle. She says she has researched her approach to parenting and chosen what she believes is best for her family. And research is something Bialik, or I should say Dr. Bialik, knows something about. She has a PhD in neuroscience from UCLA.

    “So what is it that Dr. Bialik has decided is best for her family? She practices extended breastfeeding (she nursed her oldest son until he was 2), babywearing and elimination communication. She is a huge proponent of home birth and her second son was born at home. They all share a family bed. Though her oldest son is only 3.5, they are part of a homeschooling community and are considering that a viable option for later schooling.”

    ‘Spotlight to Nightlight’: Mayim Bialik: From Teen Icon to Unconventional Mom
    http://omg.yahoo.com/blogs/goddess/spotlight-to-nightlight-mayim-bialik-from-teen-icon-to-unconventional-mom/270?nc

    “There are so many interesting/somewhat controversial things that she is doing with her family: elimination communication, bed sharing, home schooling, home birth, and choosing not to vaccinate her kids.”

    Mayim Bialik: Blossom TV Show Actress to PhD in Neuroscience
    http://celebrity.rightpundits.com/?p=6562

    What I appreciated the most from learning about Dr. Mayim Bialik’s parenting choices is that she arrived at them through RESEARCH.

    In my experience, parenting decisions that have been influenced by RESEARCH, unwounded INTUITION, and CHRISTIANITY all arrive at the same place, ATTACHMENT PARENTING.

    http://parentingfreedom.com/attachment/

    Alberta's Finance Minister with Parenting Concerns

    carol | June 18, 2009

    Alberta’s finance minister issues statement to clarify her remarks on parenting
    http://www.google.com/hostednews/canadianpress/article/ALeqM5hchqShxfxCbNkaY4EJynVolRNtkQ

    “‘I understand some people were offended by some of what I said. I did not intend to suggest there is only one way to raise a child,’ [Iris] Evans wrote.”

    “‘Having worked for most of my adult life while raising kids, I understand no situation is the same and that parents have to make difficult choices that are in the best interests of their children, and I applaud them for making these choices.’”

    “In her remarks Wednesday, Evans said good parenting means sacrificing some income to stay at home while kids are young, as her children have done.”

    “‘They’ve understood perfectly well that when you’re raising children you don’t both go off to work and leave them for somebody else to raise,’ Evans said.”

    “‘This is not a statement against daycare. It’s a statement about their belief in the importance of raising children properly.’”

    “She also said a lack of education is ruining the upbringing of some children and leading to mental illness and crime.”

    Inconvenient Children

    carol | June 15, 2009

    Ontario Plans to Let Parents Leave 4-Year-Olds in School from 7:30am till 6pm
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2009/jun/09061507.html

    “A sweeping change that would combine day care with kindergarten in Ontario schools is being proposed by Liberal Premier Dalton McGuinty. The plan would allow parents of 4- and 5-year-olds to leave their children at school from 7:30 in the morning to 6 in the evening…”

    “Plummeting birth rates have resulted in the closure of over 300 schools in Ontario in the last six years…”

    …”Acceptance of the program ‘will depend on how much importance people place on parents interacting with their young children…’”

    Public Schools: Expensive and Untrustworthy Babysitting Service

    carol | June 2, 2009

    The Biggest Mystery in American History
    http://tcsdaily.com/Article.aspx?id=052609A

    “The U.S. spends a huge amount on education; more per student than anyone else; more and more every year. Simultaneously, over the last 70 years, literacy has fallen, SAT scores have fallen, American competitiveness has fallen, and the general knowledge of ordinary citizens has fallen. Teenagers graduate from high school who can’t read their diplomas; the country now has 50,000,000 functional illiterates…”

    “Our experts really don’t seem all that interested in education as most people understand this term. Reading, writing, arithmetic, and geography, for example, don’t seem to be priorities. What we see in education makes sense only if we assume that our educators have an agenda we don’t know about, or that they are malevolent, or both…”

    “Around 1931, every public school in the country was told that phonics was out, and the children should be taught by Look-Say (think Dick and Jane). This switch is one of most amazing (and revealing) events in American educational history. Try to think of another instance where a profession abruptly decided to reverse everything ordinarily done for centuries…”

    I think the biggest joke is when parents say they could never teach their own children. Do they even notice how much their children are lacking in the public system?

    I can’t figure out why parents let their children go to public school, unless it is because of the free babysitting. Oh. It’s the free babysitting.

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